Using gentle parenting techniques does not mean there are no boundaries or that we become "absent" parents, leaving them to work everything out for themselves.
Research shows that no boundaries is just as scary for children as boundaries that are too firm.
It is a difficult balance that we need to continually reassess and adjust as our children grow.
We know many parents out there are keen to do this program, but are struggling to access it due to difficulty getting to where the program is delivered or the cost is too high.
To help with both those factors, we are offering this program for $50 per session, ONLINE!
Every moment your child tries to talk to you is a moment they are trying to connect with you.
Children thrive on this connection and if we miss the opportunity or push them away it can often lead to an increase in behaviour.
This quote perfectly sums this up:
Listen earnestly to anything your children want to tell you, no matter what. If you don't listen eagerly to the little stuff when they are little, they won't tell you the big stuff when they are big, because to them all of it has always been big stuff.
Unconditional love is separate from setting boundaries. We can still teach boundaries without withholding love.
You can spoil a child by giving them everything they want, by giving in to every tantrum, demand or request.
But you cannot spoil them with love.
We can still love them as we say no. We can still love them when they are angry, frustrated or jealous. We can still love them even when we feel disappointed by their behaviour.
Hard to remember at times but having empathy for your child on days where they are more emotional or tired will reduce negative behaviour faster than joining them in their overwhelm.
If you want to learn strategies to reduce your child's behaviour or keep yourself calmer as a parent, contact us now to book in for a consultation.
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Ocean Grace - Parenting, Behaviour and Relationship Counselling
We all would like to parent in a way that is true to our values and beliefs, but sometimes we can get caught up in the crazy, busy life of raising children today. There are so many different opinions and information out there on what you should and shouldn’t be doing to raise your children or to have a successful marriage and family life, it can be hard to know which way to turn.
Through our services we aim to support parents, teachers, carers and families to bring their focus back to the most important part of life: relationships. Whether it is your relationship with your child, partner, parents or relatives we can support you to get back to what you value most in your life and to understand the blocks and emotional triggers that are holding you back.
We offer:
Individual counselling for adults and children
Relationship and family counselling
Parenting programs for individuals, couples and groups
Information sessions for schools, groups and professionals
Training for teachers, carers and other professionals
Ocean Grace was founded by Michelle Bowyer and named after her families love of living near the ocean and its calming effect on their children, and after her daughter Grace whom she lost during her 5th month of pregnancy. Ocean Grace is her daughters legacy that teaches us to cherish our children, overcome our fears and follow our dreams.