27/12/2025
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How horses read us (and why it matters) š§ š“
Horses donāt meet us through words or training techniques first.
They meet us through emotion and survival.
They engage with us through the limbic system, the part of the brain responsible for safety, connection, and emotional response. The way two nervous systems influence and sync with one another is known as limbic resonance.
Limbic resonance is non-verbal, nervous-system-to-nervous-system communication. Itās how emotional states pass between mammals without words. In humans, itās the foundation of bonding and empathy. In horses, itās essential for survival.
This is why internal state matters.
The limbic system works closely with the nervous system, shaping breathing, heart rate, muscle tone, posture, and movement. Together, these create your internal state and that state is never hidden.
We broadcast it constantly through our body, breath, tension or softness, rhythm, and chemistry. Other mammals donāt analyse this. They feel it automatically.
Horses are exceptionally sensitive to this.
As prey animals, their survival has always depended on detecting subtle emotional and physical changes in others. Within the herd, this silent communication keeps them safe. It is their primary language.
When youāre with a horse, youāre stepping into that system.
Before you act or speak, your horse already knows whether you feel calm, unsure, confident, or tense. This is why your inner dialogue matters.
Seeing something unfamiliar, a tarp, a gate, a strange object can trigger a moment of tension. That doesnāt make you a bad rider or handler. It makes you human.
But when the thought becomes āthis could go wrongā, the nervous system tightens and the horse feels that shift immediately. Often, that shared tension is what actually triggers the reaction.
If instead you pause, soften your body, slow your breathing, and think āitās okay, Iāve got thisā, the nervous system settles. Your horse can feel that steadiness and borrow it.
This is why breathing matters. š¬ļø
Slow, steady breathing regulates the nervous system at its source not pretending to be calm, but genuinely becoming calm.
When a horse feels safe, connection follows naturally.Not because they were forced or managed, but because your presence feels good to be near.
Horsemanship isnāt about doing more.
Itās about understanding how horses feel, process, and respond.š¤