29/03/2026
TRIGGER WARNING
DV THEMES DISCUSSED
I wrote this to my client in their debrief email...
"You are worthy of all the love and appreciation and praise. You are magnetic. No disgusting abuser shall ever receive your light. Your light should only illuminate their shadows and show them the front door…."
Please understand with this post that not all opinions/views have been mentioned. I have only touched briefly and have not acknowledged all experiences as they are extensive and diverse.
If you are a victim still in your loop with your abuser...
If you CAN walk away please take that leap
(I know this is easier said than done.. that is not my final advice)
If you are struggling to find your way out safely, please believe in the life that is beyond the abuse..
That help exists and everyone is rooting for you to find happiness and safety.
If you are in an abusive relationship, may the life beyond the abuse be filled with strength and light.
If you have left an abusive relationship and for whatever reason are still in contact with the abuser (co-parenting etc.) may your light only ever illuminate their bu****it and never reel you back in!
My post again.. is not my final words. I am speaking to one part of the whole story. And these words may only resonate with some victims out there. I acknowledge that victims walk silently each day and these words may not resonate with their current position.
I speak/post with only compassion and empathy for victims and never seek to undermine or disregard their experience.
I just wanted to share a few words that I felt were powerful and helpful.
With love,
Allennie 🌱✨