Stephanie Butler MFT PLLC

Stephanie Butler MFT PLLC Cactus Wren Family Therapy provides effective and accesible therapy to people of all ages.

Names say a lot about who we are, especially the names we chose. Cactus Wren Family Therapy hopes to communicate who we ...
30/03/2026

Names say a lot about who we are, especially the names we chose. Cactus Wren Family Therapy hopes to communicate who we are through our unique name. The cactus-wren makes its home in the prickly, pokey cactus plants of the Sonoran Desert. This wren, the largest of its kind, selects these protective desert dwellings among the saguaro and cholla as natural protection from predators. Their call is strong and loud. Their ability to thrive in harsh conditions like heat and draught is remarkable.

Our founder, Steffi Butler, has hiked and trekked all over the world from the Olympics and Cascades, the Canadian Rockies, and Austrian Alps to Venezuelan Andes and the Machu Picchu Trail. Living in Arizona provides copious hiking opportunities. On her hikes through the Superstition Mountains, she has been captivated by how this beautiful bird finds respite in a place most of us dare not to go.

This bravery reminds her of her clients. The pursuit of healing, wholeness and restoration through therapy requires courage and bravery. Therapy can be painful at times as clients unpack events that have left deep aching wounds. Much like the Cholla, we hope to be a safe and protected place for that beautiful and sacred process to take place.

Next time you see our state bird land on a bright pink Saguaro flower, think of how beauty often springs from unusual places…painful places even.

Welcome to Cactus Wren Family Therapy!We have put a lot of effort into creating a safe, warm and inviting space for you ...
27/03/2026

Welcome to Cactus Wren Family Therapy!

We have put a lot of effort into creating a safe, warm and inviting space for you to come alone, with your kids or your partner. Our waiting room is dimmed to lessen any sensory issues you or your family may have. We play calming music to help relax your nervous system. Our decor is muted and neutral, but warm and comfortable. We offer complimentary coffee, snacks and cold water.

We share space with another practice, Tree of Life, who are equally dedicated to the client experience. We all hope that you feel "at-home" and comfortable in our space!

To make an appointment with one of our therapists, click the link in our profile and schedule online.

This is Andrew Hiemstra, LMFT. Andrew has over a decade of experience working with minors and their families. He is our ...
25/03/2026

This is Andrew Hiemstra, LMFT. Andrew has over a decade of experience working with minors and their families. He is our resident "play therapist" and his clients love him!
Let's bust some play therapy myths...

MYTH: Male therapists won't connect as easily with my child.
TRUTH: Most kids are paying more attention to whether they are safe, seen and heard - not the gender of the therapist. It's a pretty regular thing for me to cross paths with a kiddo as they are leaving their first session with Andrew and hear them ask, "When can we come back?"
MYTH: Play therapy is just playing games, not therapy.
TRUTH: In 2005, a meta analysis of studies on the efficacy of playtherapy between 1953 and 2000 was completed. It found that "On average, children receiving play therapy inter-ventions performed more than3⁄4of a standard deviation better ongiven outcome measures compared with children who did notreceive play therapy." In other words, play is extremely effective. Your child is getting all the benefits of therapy b/c their therapist is joining their world - not requiring them to enter the adult world of "talk therapy."
MYTH: My child's therapist should meet with me every time they meet with my child.
TRUTH: Your child's therapist must have the trust of your child in order to be effective. We have ethical standards that require us to inform authorities and parents of safety concerns or other risky/illegal behaviors. Find a therapist you can trust to hold confidential space with your child, so that your child can benefit from that space and really open up.
What are some other "myths" we can bust for you about kids going to therapy?

It’s been a while since I’ve introduced myself. I am Steffi, owner and clinical director of Cactus Wren Family Therapy. ...
24/03/2026

It’s been a while since I’ve introduced myself. I am Steffi, owner and clinical director of Cactus Wren Family Therapy. I am trained in EMDR, IFS, somatic processing models, and Gottman. I am also trained in S*x Therapy thru the Institute for S*xual Wholeness.

I work with clients 18+yo (individuals, families or couples). My niche is in trauma recovery, codependency, assertiveness training and high conflict relationships.

I love to garden, woodwork, kayak, hike and fish! I also love cooking and good restaurants. I am celebrating my 18 years of marriage to my husband this month and we share for children ages 14-8.

I have a background in Biblical Studies and am seminary educated and am willing to integrate faith/spiritual direction when clients are looking for that.

Click the link in our bio to schedule an appointment!

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24/03/2026

New Brand Photos from Bethany Rose Photography! Thanks for doing such amazing work and capturing the spirit of Cactus Wren Family Therapy!

Happy Friday FriendsI’m just curious - have you planned anything this weekend that feeds your soul? Fills your tank? Pou...
27/02/2026

Happy Friday Friends

I’m just curious - have you planned anything this weekend that feeds your soul? Fills your tank? Pours into your own energy reserves?

Give yourself a 20 min window. What could you do, where could you be, how do you want to spend that time?

Hey friends-Good news! Some of my clients have graduated and I have some regular openings for couples and adult individu...
25/02/2026

Hey friends-
Good news! Some of my clients have graduated and I have some regular openings for couples and adult individuals! Click the link to our website and select “request and appt” on our landing page to start your own healing journey!

Did you know that you can make appointments through our client portal?You can also access your Super Bills for submissio...
12/02/2026

Did you know that you can make appointments through our client portal?
You can also access your Super Bills for submission to your insurance carrier, update payment information, and view scheduled appointments.

31/01/2026

Many young adults struggle to name ge***al parts correctly, but those who can tend to have better sexual outcomes. A new study finds links between anatomical vocabulary, sexual satisfaction, and confidence.

Feel it...don't FEED it.You can feel frustration without feeding it. Acknowledge your feelings, then shift your energy b...
30/01/2026

Feel it...don't FEED it.

You can feel frustration without feeding it. Acknowledge your feelings, then shift your energy before it spills onto your child. What spills from you spreads to them. Then it just gets messy and clean up can be painful.

Say, "I am feeling frustrated. I can handle it. I just need a moment." (Then take some space.)
REsist building the mental stories that intensify the frustration. "He never listens!" "He's going to be in jail if he keeps this up." "He's trying to p**s me off." Whatever story robs you of your patience for your child and your compassion - put an end to that. Find a different story.
"I can be enough calm for both of us." "He needs something I am not currently providing." "He's still learning, and I am the teacher."

This skill can be a tough one. Reach out to us here at Cactus Wren for some help! Don't waste another day not enjoying your teen!

Address

2241 E Pecos Road
Chandler, WA
85225

Opening Hours

Tuesday 6am - 11:30am
Wednesday 6am - 11:30am
Thursday 6am - 11:30am

Telephone

+14807014535

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