Choosebetter4u

Choosebetter4u Life is about choices (cause and effect). Our goal is to assist you with understanding how your life choices both affect, and effect, your life.

07/04/2026

What we do not acknowledge we leave space to grow uncontrollably. Let’s talk about the way we move through life. A conversation worth having. Let’s walk though it together.

01/04/2026

Comparison is the thief of joy. In so many areas we make comparisons good, bad, and indifferent. Our emotions are highly attached to our perceptions. Perspective is key and also lock. Being able to have positive influence and guidance through life allows us to be more informed as we make decisions.

I recently chopped it up with and he shared a powerful thought about growth and community that resonates with how I operate. He said if you are operating in your lane doing well, and connect with someone else operating well in their lane, if you all can form an alliance your impact increases because now you have a higher net worth through social capital and shared information.

Maybe your influence doesn’t come from social media. Maybe it’s from family, friends, work place situations or elsewhere. Being aware of what influences you is just as important as who/what you influence. Be aware. And if you haven’t tapped in with a therapist, let this be a sign.

28/03/2026

Times have changed. Good bad or indifferent. My clients keep me on my toes… so I’m just here to keep you on yours. And no… I never could “sing” so get off meeeeeeee 😂 🤣

I do however have about 20 therapist that don’t have a waiting list that you may be able to schedule with as soon as this week. Another 50ish that I can refer you to. Your ability to get support depends on your next move.

27/03/2026

What are you passing along that was passed to you? Good bad and indifferent more is caught than taught. It’s not just about the things we say but the life we live… especially when no one is watching.

25/03/2026

I have chosen to follow what I believe the calling over my life is by dedicating my life to supporting others find mental wellness. And how befitting that my initials are AMH - Anything Mental Health. My goal is to be a resource for anyone looking for support around Becoming Empowered To Transcend Every Roadblock (B.E.T.T.E.R)- Choosing BETTER.

We have several therapists at CB4U, many of which have immediate openings. Check the website link in bio

has a FREE directory of Black men who provide therapy across NC.

There is also where I serve as the Clinical Director, and where my business partner and I are doing some remarkable things in the adult IDD long term residential care space around independent living.

In my network I have over 100 therapists and clinical mental health personnel, many who I supervise, mentor, or share life with regularly. My hope is to equip other professionals to grow in their niche and make an impact on the community of folks that pull at their passion.

North Carolina is my stomping grounds however I have connections across the Carolinas, up and down the east coast and spreading across the Midwest and South. Soon my reach will span the 50 states and North America. It’s not my aim to be the best therapist. Actually I never wanted to be a therapist, at least not for the title. It was for the access and recognition that “they” would need for me to walk into spaces that needed my presence. My heart is to see people win. Thankful for my journey and all the lessons I’ve learned along the way.

Many of my messages hit home for others, trust me they hit home for me first. That’s how I can share them so authentically. Favor ain’t fair. Talk with you soon. Peace and blessings.

I do not own the copyright to any music attached to this video.

25/03/2026

Out the mud with it
Or
Pull yourself up by the bootstraps

Both sayings convey the same message and truthfully we need other people.

23/03/2026

I ain’t neva scared!?!!!?

Truthfully things get scary…

22/03/2026

Many of us flowery language to explore ideas around why we don’t have regrets. I’d like to challenge the idea by submitting that sometimes things in our lives could be different if there was a do-over. What say you?

20/03/2026

24 hours to live…

24/02/2026

In less than 60 days we will explore how what we experience in life can trigger our response to escape in various ways… you might think it’s one thing… but it could be another…

08/02/2026

Don’t be fooled by potential. Theory without application is wasted information. The graveyard is full of unrealized potential. Don’t die to your failure to use the information you posses. KNOW. DO. CHOOSE.

“The Man and Mental Health“ event was just the beginning for what’s to come. you have been doing a powerful work. May the provision of your vision be tenfold.

There is a world of difference in who I was and who I will become. It starts with who I am. What matters next is what I ...
07/02/2026

There is a world of difference in who I was and who I will become. It starts with who I am. What matters next is what I do. I often invert am and do and forget that the being is more important than the doing. I DO a lot and I am thankful for the recognition by . I am able to do so much because of who I am and who people perceive me to be.

One of my closest confidants said to me just before 2020, “Big bro you have got to understand your value. People with master’s degrees seek you out and work under your leadership. They believe in who you are and how you will help them develop. They could go anywhere but they come to you and they stick with you. My turnover crazy high and all you need is a high school education for the work I employ folks with. But you have something special because you are someone special. Never forget that”.

As I take 2026 to relearn BEING is more valuable than DOING I will also keep in mind that the multiplicity of life says that coexistence is my final form. It does have to be “either or”, it can be “both and”.







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