The Creation Space with Lynsey Tomkinson

06/02/2026

The Heart Return Session — Valentine's Offering

Valentine’s season can bring a lot to the surface.

Feelings of longing, tenderness, loneliness and old relationship wounds.

The inner child parts of us that still wonder if love is available to us… or if we’re offering love in the right places.

This month, I’m offering a small number of Heart Return Sessions. A 90-minute 1:1 hearth space with me to unpack the feelings that are coming up for you.

This is not a program OR a big commitment.

Just a gentle, grounded space to look at what you’ve been carrying and reconnect with the love that resides within.

In this session, we may explore:

✨ relationship patterns and attachment wounds
✨ inner child tenderness beneath defensiveness or longing
✨ nervous system grounding and emotional safety
✨ energy healing + intuitive support
✨ a simple integration practice to take with you

Details:

90-minute private session
Online or in person
$199 AUD
5 spots available before Feb 14

If you feel the call, simply reply “heart” and I’ll send through the booking details.

Let's remember where love lives ❤️

27/01/2026

It's normal in our society for relationships to begin from a place of wanting.

Wanting to feel chosen.
Wanting to feel safe.
Wanting to feel “enough”.

When relationships are built on a foundation of lack - on not having, needing, or hoping someone else will fill a void - we compromise our need for safety without realising it. We give our power away. We over-give. We ignore red flags. We stay longer than is healthy.

Healing changes this.

When we do the inner work, love stops being something outside of us, something we chase - and becomes something we have.

From that place, relationship stops being about filling an emptiness inside us and becomes an overflow. We have love to offer, and now the question becomes: who is safe, available, and worthy to receive it?

That’s a very different position to be in.

It’s discerning.
It’s grounded.
It’s protective.

And it dramatically reduces the likelihood of being hurt, because you are no longer trying to earn love, you are choosing who to give it to.

✨ Relationship Mastery was created to support this shift.

It’s a 6-week program designed to help you understand and change the unconscious patterns shaping your relationships, so you can move from codependency into conscious connection.

For the next **72 hours** you can access **10% off** with the code VALENTINE10 as a Valentine’s season invitation to choose yourself, and the kind of love that feels safe.

If you’re ready to stop building relationships from lack, and start relating from wholeness and power, this may be your next step.

👉 https://www.thecreationspace.com.au/relationshipmastery

Start your journey to conscious connection today 🤍

31/12/2025

"The heartbreak and pain of being dismissed by your family of origin, of being rejected, betrayed or belittled holds the most unimaginable grief. Our family should be a place of safety, belonging and protection. But when they embody the opposite, our whole sense of reality gets flipped on its head.
How to know what real love is?"

https://medium.com/hello-love/the-blessing-in-being-the-black-sheep-1ddb0af07897

Published in The Good Men Project

Through heartbreak comes the life you didn’t dare dream of.

31/12/2025

Happy New Year!! 🦋✨🌸

Are you ready for a new experience in 2026? Ready to understand why you keep repeating the same patterns (and how you stop)?

The MOST important thing I have learned on this journey (and the thing that changed my life and the lives of everyone I’ve worked with)?

The problems we keep circling in our adult lives?
They’re usually not “adult problems” at all.

The overthinking. The anxiety. The self-doubt. The constant people-pleasing. The fear of being too much or not enough.

It all comes from our inner child - the part of us that learned early on how to survive, but never learned how to feel safe, loved, or seen.

And until that younger part of you is finally acknowledged, soothed, and healed… it will keep running the show.

And you’ll keep showing up the same way, attracting the same outcomes, and repeating the same stories.

This is exactly what Journey to Wholeness addresses.

Healing the root cause — the part of you that has been waiting to be seen, heard and loved for who you are.

When that part is healed… everything else starts to shift. Your relationships. Your confidence. Your emotional freedom. AND your ability to make choices that align with your best life.

Journey to Wholeness is an 8 week exploration of the stories, experiences and wounding that shape who you are today.

Take a moment to imagine who you’d be without them - in this version of reality anything is possible!

https://www.thecreationspace.com.au/inner-child-healing

15/12/2025

Honoured to have my latest article published by Hello, Love (part of the Good Men Project) on Medium 🙌🏼✨🥰 (This one is personal 💔)

“Not long after my marriage ended I met a man that I felt I had known before. The kind of connection that feels like it must mean something more. I called him the love of my life. And three years later, that same beautiful (yet toxic) relationship ended, leaving me single and heartbroken, for the second time.

That was the relationship that changed the course of my life.

That was the relationship that stopped me from pursuing men who were not capable of a truly loving, intimate partnership.

That was the relationship where I stopped blaming my relationship failures on the emotionally immature counterpart and started to take responsibility.

If I wanted a successful relationship then I was the one that had to change…”

How establishing safety within means you no longer have to accept scraps.

07/12/2025

...So here I am, my biggest fear is becoming realised. My face is no longer flawless, it is in fact deeply and very noticeably flawed and there is nothing I can do about it but accept it. And open up to trust that everyone will love me just the same no matter what my face looks like...

Because the Route to Unconditional Love is Through the Places we Avoid the Most.

24/11/2025

Do you often feel emotionally triggered?

Do you feel guilty for taking up space and attention?

Do you tend to lose yourself in relationships?

Perhaps you become judgemental and self critical when you try and assert your needs.

You might feel that no matter how hard you try it is never enough. You constantly feel drained and as though you’re running out of time.

Inner Child Healing transforms the way you perceive your world and every interaction you have. Releasing old wounds helps you to step into your power, without the old stories that keep you playing small.

Discover what your inner child is trying to tell you, and how reconnecting with them can change the way you think, feel, and love.

19/11/2025

A personal piece, written around the time I got divorced - several years ago now. Reading it now helps me realise how far I have come and whilst there will always be sadness that my life does not look 'picture perfect', I wouldn't choose to do anything differently.

"I had never considered divorce might be part of my adulthood, part of my journey. As a child envisioning the life ahead, marriage, children and a nice house all fitted the picture. Separation, single parenting and just ‘getting by’ didn’t feature on my list of future aspirations..."

Not yet, anyway.

10/11/2025

My first article was published to Hello, Love on Medium today!

This is a heartfelt story about my experiences loving, losing and realising that if I wanted life to be different then change needed to begin with me. I hope you enjoy it 💗

I thought I knew what love was, but the truth was, I had NO idea.

18/10/2025

Are you ready to discover the real you? To peel back the layers of conditioning that have led you to dim your light? Imagine a you that had no reservations, no limitations and no anxiety! Imagine the freedom in that! Journey to Wholeness is my 12 week inner child healing program created to offer intensive results. If you’re ready to shift what no longer serves on every level and experience a much more YOUier you, then this is for you!

Learn more at www.thecreationspace.com.au/journeytowholeness”

24/09/2025

The last 5 years have been a complex journey of love, laughter, grief, loneliness, abandonment, joy and sooooooo much healing.

All the things.

But today, today I feel I have finally integrated the aspects of self that need to feel loved and will compromise my own boundaries to achieve it. I have laid to rest the treadmill of survival.

No more.

I am responsible for my own wellbeing. My own security, my own safety.

I am responsible for parenting myself and my children with love, attention, generosity, presence and nurture.

I am responsible for honouring my soul’s wish to be of service and to support those in need of healing to evolve into powerful, abundant, sovereign creators of their own lives.

No longer do I need to be in relationship to feel safe.

No longer do I compromise my needs in order to feel loved.

No longer do I mask how much I love you, and how grateful I am for the lessons I have learned in your absence, my twin soul.

Today I celebrate the beauty I see in the world, in life, in human connection, in humanity. I celebrate our capacity to rise, to heal, to love ourselves when our conditioning taught us not to. To rebuild from a place of love, wholeness and abundance what was once built on fear, lack and emptiness.

I reclaim my power, my energy and the fragmented parts of my soul that thought I needed to betray myself to survive.

I don’t mind if you don’t love me, see me, understand me.

I see your journey - I honour it and I honour you for being brave enough to walk this path of evolution.

Living in alignment with love is tender, genuine, patient, peaceful and kind.

But most of all it is freedom.

I am free from the binding of the matrix, free from the need for external validation and free from the conditioning, wounding and limitation that controls and separates us.

Here there is nothing but love and it is wild! ✌🏼💗✨

15/09/2025

New blog post - this one is coming up in sessions a lot lately. A great tool for self-reflection, helping you to recognise and clear codependency in parent/child dynamics 🥰

"I experienced a rude awakening recently, when I finally realised that I believed my children must share my values. I felt justified in demanding that they share my desire to rid our home and our bodies of harmful chemicals and toxic substances. I felt that because I value organic food, healthy eating, and a toxin-free lifestyle, that my children should too..."

I experienced a rude awakening recently, when I finally realised that I believed my children must share my values. I felt justified in demanding that they share my desire to rid our home and our bodies of harmful chemicals and toxic substances. I felt that because I value organic food, healthy eatin