Counselloroncall

Counselloroncall Clinical Counsellor, Author, Psychotherapist & Hypnotherapist specialised in complexed trauma

Clinical Counselling & Clinical Hypnotherapy for ; Trauma, Emotional Abuse , Narcissist Abuse recovery, Addictions and Complications from Childhood Abuse issues and family dysfunctions and or personality disorders or Mental Health .

"To steal someone's power, you don't need to kill them. You only need to convince them they never had any."
12/05/2025

"To steal someone's power, you don't need to kill them. You only need to convince them they never had any."

“ We don’t just “get over” things because wounds don’t operate on a timeline, and healing isn’t about erasure. We are wi...
07/03/2025

“ We don’t just “get over” things because wounds don’t operate on a timeline, and healing isn’t about erasure. We are wired for survival, for connection, for meaning and when something shakes the foundation of our safety, it stays with us, not because we are weak or unwilling to move forward but because our nervous systems, our hearts, and our very sense of self, demands integration, not dismissal.

Apologies are nice but they don’t undo harm. Forgiveness, when it comes, is deeply personal never an obligation, never a moral benchmark, never the only way forward. Some wounds call for forgiveness, others call for boundaries and others call for nothing at all but the space to be honored as they are. And that’s okay.

Healing isn’t about returning to who we were before the rupture it’s about sitting with our pain, about transcending, about emerging in a space that embraces us in both the breaking and the rebuilding.

The scars we carry are not evidence of our brokenness; they are proof of our capacity to endure, to adapt, to make meaning. They are our stories , our uniquness that invites us to stand in this new shape, unapologetic, unashamed, fully alive as an act of reclaimaint & bravery.

Trauma shapes us but so does love. Pain leaves its mark, but so does joy. We are wired not just for suffering, but for resilience, for laughter, for connection, for the kind of tenderness & love that cracks us open in the best possible way.

The darkness will always be there, embrace it , and know you hold the antidote. As the greatest light we will ever know is the one we find not in the absence of shadow, but in the contrast of it.



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Why see a therapist ?1. Therapy isn’t about fixing you—it’s about uncovering the real you beneath survival patterns and ...
20/02/2025

Why see a therapist ?

1. Therapy isn’t about fixing you—it’s about uncovering the real you beneath survival patterns and past wounds.
2. When you heal, you stop reacting from old pain and start responding with clarity, confidence, and truth.
3. Therapy helps you break free from inherited beliefs and conditioning, so you can live from your values, not fear or obligation.
4. The more you understand yourself, the deeper and healthier your relationships become.
5. Unhealed trauma doesn’t just stay in the past—it plays out in your choices, habits, and emotional triggers until you transform it.
6. Authenticity isn’t about pleasing others—it’s about trusting yourself enough to show up fully, unapologetically.
7. Therapy teaches you how to set boundaries without guilt and love without self-sacrifice.
8. Healing yourself creates a ripple effect—when you change, your energy shifts, and so do the people around you.
9. The world doesn’t need a perfect version of you—it needs the real you.
10. Your authentic self is already there—therapy just helps you reclaim it.

Deirdre Rolfe

The wolf in sheep’s clothing reveals the layers of deception . It confronts us with its stark unreality . Fear, grief, h...
06/11/2024

The wolf in sheep’s clothing reveals the layers of deception . It confronts us with its stark unreality . Fear, grief, hurt, rage , confusion causes disequilibrium, threatening to topple us all.

Why ? How? The reactive mind loops in the gish galloping strategy of distraction . So many fires are 🔥lit, the real intent hideing in the psychological power of shackling your mind.

Dont allow that.

Victor Frankle said in his book, “Man’s search for meaning”, about his survival during the Holocaust that one’s sense of purpose , and hope is fundamentally at the core of our humanity and well being. These internal landscapes of our mind hold the source of our freedoms, integrity, values, resilence and power .

One might grieve the loss experienced when the mask of deception reveals its self in someone or something you place value on .

However, our power , our wellness, lies in our grace to adapt, our resilence to see truth for what it is, our fortitude to stand strong in our our beliefs and choose to see with the observer mind, feel with the curious heart and stand with the gut of meaning and purpose that continues to guide each one of us toward a meaningful, purpose filled life .

Respond don’t react .
Guard your minds.
Guard your heart.
Guard your gut.

The psychological intent of the wolves in sheep’s clothing whether in your friendship circles, relationships , work or the political arena are there to incite, divide, confuse , isolate and denounce .

That only has power if you react .

Observe
Respond

Draw from your own values, not theirs. Be guided by your purpose, embrace it, let it center you, and hold onto you.

In that, we find our humanity, our healing, and our freedom.

In that we find those aligned to our values and truth. In that we are stronger, together .

I love the power of good questions .I often use psycholinguistics to shift states, perspectives and to engage in open, s...
30/09/2024

I love the power of good questions .I often use psycholinguistics to shift states, perspectives and to engage in open, subjective curiosities. Life is as simple or as complex as you choose it to be. Consider starting with the most well known question that is infinite in its answer 'Who am I ?"

In a life of complexities, cruelties, difficult people, lost love, deaths, war, inflation and despair....find the questions that allow you to seek deeper meaning, beauty and perspectives outside your the realms of your knowledge and into the space of hope, love and possibilities.

Dream, imagine, get curious, go within, go above, go beyond.

Let magic flow

Ask inquiring questions

Deirdre Rolfe
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The right hemisphere of the brain is the preverbal, preconscious, intuitive, instinctive, subjective realm of creativity...
15/07/2024

The right hemisphere of the brain is the preverbal, preconscious, intuitive, instinctive, subjective realm of creativity, passion, empathy and imagination which the great poet William Blake believed contained the worlds of true originality, meaning, myth and reality.

This true awakened realm means we no longer just look at things, we look through them.



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24/02/2024

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08/06/2023

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