30/01/2026
There are many parenting myths, narratives and “beliefs” that are perpetuated by society that are not helpful and actually damaging to our parenting practices. So many untruths are accepted and passed around as fact when the research does not back it up.
Many parents are shocked when I tell them and explain scientifically through neuroscience how their child is not capable of high brain order functions like being manipulative in a relationship. But once they can absorb the science backed explanation they can completely see clearly how untrue this myth is.
In reality these parenting myths actually make parenting much harder. I’ve seen it first hand in my clinical and also my personal experience as a mum how these untrue myths make us underestimate our kids and impact our relationships and connection as well as our kids self-concept and esteem.
Our goal as parents should always focus on connection not control. Many of the child narratives told by society focus on control. There are so many more myths and untruths out there about kids that need to be debunked, the list would be exhaustive. Which ones as a parent have you questioned?
Parenting is easier when we stop chasing outdated advice and start trusting what science tells us about kids’ brains.
💛 Save this post to remind yourself next time you feel pressure to do things “the old way.”