22/12/2025
There are many elements to good health.
Nutrition matters. Sleep matters. Regulation matters.
But joy matters too.
When food feels noisy, when eating becomes emotional or compulsive, it’s often an attempt to self soothe a nervous system that’s under stimulated, overwhelmed, or quietly unfulfilled.
Food becomes a stand in.A way to feel comforted. A way to feel something. A way to avoid the harder truth, that life feels flat, disconnected, or lacking meaning right now.
Joy isn’t found in the big milestones. Not the holiday, the car, or the “once things settle down” fantasy.
It’s built in small, ordinary moments:
– a satisfying meal
– a good book
– sunlight on your skin
– time by the water
– laughter with people who feel safe
Expectations drain joy fast. When happiness is outsourced, to other people or outcomes, disappointment follows.
Instead, ask yourself: What gives me small moments of genuine pleasure? And then create more of that, intentionally.
These moments matter.
They influence your hormones, your nervous system, your relationship with food, and how resilient you feel in your day.
Health isn’t just about what you remove.
It’s also about what you allow in.