24/01/2026
The Journey to Love 💗
All those years of accepting what you believed was love at the time. Only to find out it was toxic and unhealthy!🤯
Heartbreak after heartbreak, the same endless nightmare repeating over & over again. At the time you never thought you were going to recover. Was it really all their fault? When it happens for long enough you’ll discover that the common denominator in all this was you all along! Perhaps in this awareness you are so disillusioned by love, you are ready to entertain the idea, so you can attract true love into your life.
Could this be where the true gold is found?
When you are ready to dig deep and find the truth that lies within, you will discover your true self! Raw, naked, vulnerable & cracked open, nowhere to hide but to face the shadow. All your unresolved trauma, beliefs, patterns and a deeper understanding of why you may of attracted partners with similar issues or even bonded with them over similar life experiences.
You’ll perhaps discover that you just wanted to be loved & feel love. So you poured love into everyone else because you never wanted others to feel the same way you did. Their needs and wants were always put before your own. You never put yourself first once and in the process became so disconnected from yourself. You never learnt self-love or treated yourself. You searched for love outside of yourself coming from a place of lack. The more you chased love the further away it was.
You discover the trauma Patterns of abandonment, the feelings of not feeling good enough, rejection wounds, the lack of boundaries in your life, self-respect and much more.
However, the Universe works in mysterious ways to help you, not that you it see it that way too begin with. After another heartbreak I was diagnosed with Fibromyalgia the pain of a lifetime of heartbreak doesn’t even come close to the pain & frustration felt. What a perfect lesson for not practicing self-care, self-love & compassion for myself. Left with no choice but to learn to listen to my body, to focus on me, go my pace and truely learn to pour everything into me instead of everyone else. To start looking within and giving back to myself and learning that im not my past trauma or experiences. They were all there so I could find my truth & reconnect with my soul and learn to truely love myself.
This amazing journey of discovery & connection allows you to truely learn to have love & compassion for yourself and others. This can happen as fast or slow as you choose, the quicker you let go the easier it becomes!
The secret to finding true love is to find
It within yourself first, be everything you want In a partner and be a vibrational match to attract love into your life 💞
After many years on my own and not dating, digging deep and healing myself. I now feel ready to attract my Divine Counterpart into my life. Here is my alter to attract the love & compassion into my life that I have become 💚💗💖
Blessings to you all that are on this path, it’s certainly gets a little messy along the way, but the best is yet to come 🫶🏼
