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We have been called to reflect God's love in the world. Love unconditionally with pure motives. https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Vb7CAnTHltY6YW9h1h37

01/12/2025

Lord, I confess that I often want things my way.

Teach me how to submit to my spouse out of reverence for You and the calling that You have placed on our lives

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25/11/2025

A healthy, strong marriage doesn’t happen by accident and doesn’t just appear because we felt all the tingly feelings when we dated.
When a married couple displays intentionality, they are being deliberate in their actions, purposeful in their plans, and voluntarily acting in the best interest of their marriage, not themselves.

22/11/2025

We are called to be intentional and commit our daily affairs to God.

Our purpose is to reflect God's love to our spouse and when we feel that something needs to be done , remember this

We fix us not others ❗

{Put off your old self... and be renewed in the spirit of your minds, and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness" (Ephesians 4:22-24)}

Nothing is too hard for God to restore back to its original intent.

All we need is patience and surrendered hearts.

Shalom 🙏
Manoti Magati & Evans Magati

20/11/2025

A couple's therapist from Montreal once said he didn’t learn the truth about relationships from textbooks — he learned it from listening to over 1,000 recorded arguments. After years of studying tone, pauses, breathing, and micro-reactions, he realized something shocking: “Relationships don’t break from conflict. They break from emotional misalignment.”

He explained that in almost every failing couple, one person argues from fear while the other argues from logic. One wants reassurance, the other wants solutions. But fear can’t hear logic — and logic can’t absorb fear. So both believe they’re being ignored, even when they’re trying. “Different nervous systems speak different languages,” he said.

In one recording, a woman said softly, “I feel alone.” Her partner immediately replied, “But I’m right here.” To him it was factual. He paused the audio and told his students: “This is how love dies — not from cruelty, but from mismatched interpretation.”

He found another pattern: the person who raises their voice first is usually the one who feels the least safe — not the most angry. And the one who goes silent isn’t calm — they’re overloaded. Silence is often a shutdown, not strength. The therapist said these mismatched signals create emotional static where neither person can connect.

And the most devastating discovery: most couples weren’t fighting each other — they were fighting their own childhood nervous system responses. Their partner was just the trigger. “We don’t argue with the person in front of us,” he said. “We argue with the version of ourselves we were taught to be.”

Relationships break not from bad intentions — but from unhealed patterns.

17/11/2025

When you're close to someone, it is easier to see their flaws. They're obvious❗

There is a time to address faults, but if done improperly it can be hurtful.

Nobody is perfect❗🤨

We judge ourselves by our intentions and others by their behavior ~ Stephen Covey

Make sure to seek understanding when your spouse makes a mistake, then show them the same grace you want to be shown.

Remember! We are on the same team

SHALOM

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16/11/2025

Marriage becomes easier the day you stop trying to win

Because if one person wins the marriage loses❗

Be teammates not opponents living under One roof

03/10/2025

Marriages thrive when Fathers are celebrated and appreciated.

God help us not to take each other for granted or become too familiar that it breeds contempt.

We pray for healthy communities in this land we now call home.

11/03/2025

A successful marriage requires knowledge and understanding about how to live and commit to your partner. Understanding how to navigate the challenges of a committed relationship is a crucial element for a lasting and fulfilling partnership.

To protect and sustain a marriage, individuals need to acquire knowledge about how to navigate the complexities of a long-term commitment. This knowledge may include understanding effective communication, conflict resolution, compromise, and the ability to adapt to change.

By possessing this knowledge, individuals can better equip themselves to build and maintain a successful marriage.

~ Dr Myles Munroe

We must be intentional

30/11/2024

As a man, protecting your wife from your parents and siblings is essential, but in the context of your marriage, your wife must come first. It is your primary responsibility to shield her from toxic individuals, even if they happen to be your family members.

As a husband, it is your home and your wife. Do not stand by and watch as others create tension within it. If you allow them to break your home, the same people will eventually use your failure against you.

Marriage is a sacred bond, and as a man, you must place your wife at the center of your priorities. When you marry, you commit to creating a life together, and that means protecting that life from any threats, no matter where they come from.

Your role as a man is not just to love your wife but also to ensure her emotional and mental well-being. This includes standing up for her when she is mistreated, even by those closest to you.

Many men struggle to balance loyalty between their family of origin and their wife. However, you must understand that your loyalty now primarily lies with the family you are building with your spouse.

As a husband, protecting your wife does not mean disrespecting your family. It means setting healthy boundaries that ensure mutual respect and harmony. A strong man knows how to communicate these boundaries with firmness and love.

Failing to defend your wife in the face of toxic behaviors from your family sends a message that she cannot rely on you. Over time, this can erode trust, intimacy, and respect in your marriage.

Toxic behaviors, such as constant criticism, interference, or manipulation, should not be tolerated from anyone, regardless of their relation to you. As a man, love for your family does not justify letting them harm your marriage.

It is your responsibility to ensure that your home is a sanctuary of peace for your wife. She should feel safe, valued, and cherished within your relationship, free from unnecessary conflicts or judgments.

Remember that your parents and siblings may not always understand or agree with your decisions, but that does not mean their opinions should dictate your marriage. As the leader of your home, you must stand with your wife as an equal partner.

By protecting your wife from harmful dynamics, you are also setting a powerful example for future generations. Your children, if you have them, will learn what a healthy and respectful marriage looks like.

As a man, a successful marriage requires unity. Stand with your wife, face challenges together, and make it clear to the world that your bond is unbreakable. The strength of your marriage depends on your ability to prioritize and protect it.

- Abhikesh

29/11/2024

Choose to be your spouse’s biggest encourager; not his/her biggest critic. Choose to be the person who wipes away their tears; not the one who causes them. Choose to become a cheerleader for your spouse’s strengths instead of always pointing out his/her weaknesses. Encouragement is a simple-but-powerful tool to bring fuel to your marriage and joy to your spouse.

Proverbs 12:25 KJV
[25] Heaviness in the heart of man maketh it stoop: But a good word maketh it glad.

Shalom

Evans Magati

30/10/2024

Marriage is designed to root out selfishness.
You don't go in thinking what's in it for me but what will make us flourish

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