Beyond The Banter

Beyond The Banter The podcast is designed to provide a platform for men to communicate and seek advice on day-to-day

20/12/2025

Copied from a police community page.

Very impactful. 💙💙💙💙💙

COPS ARE TOPS

You arrive at work on a Sunday afternoon.

Not early. Not late. One of those shifts that blends into night.

Locker first. Past a couple of mates in the corridor.
Quick banter. “Did you see the surf this morning?”
Someone jokes about dinner plans. Someone else complains about the heat.

Uniform on. Kit bag ready.
Gun room. Keys out. Pistol unlocked.
Rack. Rack. Rack.
Magazine loaded. Field check. Holstered.

Twelve months in. Still new. Still learning how fast a day can change.

Out onto the station floor. You stop at the supervisor’s desk.
“What am I on today, Sarge?”
“You’re on 15.”

First response.

The truck.

You find your partner. Settle in. Seatbelt clicks.
You talk about nothing, the weather, the family BBQ you just left, the trip coming up. Ordinary life. Safe life.

The sun is still hanging low.

Then the radio crackles.

Two long beeps. A voice calm but urgent.

“Eastern suburbs vehicles, cars in the area. Reports of armed offenders at Bondi Beach. Multiple calls. Shots fired into crowds.”

The words hit like a blow.

You stop mid-sentence.

Gear grabbed. Door open. Engine started.
Lights on. Sirens pierce the afternoon calm.

The truck surges forward towards Bondi Beach.

The radio explodes, cars calling from every direction. Someone already on scene. Their voice tight, clipped, urgent.

Heart hammering. Mouth dry. Hands slick.
Slow your breathing.
Think. What do I do first?

As you close in, you see them.
People running, screaming, dropping bags, phones, shoes. Faces you don’t even recognise, but instantly know.

People scream at you with what can only be described as a Primal scream, begging you to help their daughter who has just been shot. You must move on. You must stop the killing.

Then you hear it.

A sharp crack.
Another.
And another.

Gunfire.

This is it.
You are it.
People need you.

Everything narrows. The world shrinks to what’s in front of you.

You’re out of the truck before you remember opening the door. Boots hit sand and concrete. Someone screams behind you. People scatter wildly across grass and beach.

Videos later showed two men firing down from a concrete pedestrian footbridge near Archer Park above the northern end of the beach, unleashed into a crowd gathered for the Chanukah by the Sea celebration that had begun hours earlier.

“Contact front.”

You don’t remember saying it, only hearing it.

The shots keep coming.
Crowds fling themselves for cover, friends clutching friends, strangers dragging strangers, the air thick with panic.

Your pistol feels heavier than it ever has.
Not comfort.
Responsibility.

You move anyway.

Hands steady, somehow, despite the tremor in your arms. Vision narrowing, then widening as you force air into your lungs. In. Out. In. Out.

“Police! Get down! Get out!”

You don’t know who hears you. You just keep shouting.

Your partner is beside you. Close enough to feel without looking. You don’t need to look.

Fear hasn’t vanished. It’s tucked itself behind focus.

There’s no hero moment. No speech in your head.

Just one brutal truth repeating:

If you stop moving, someone else doesn’t make it home.

So you keep moving.

Into noise.
Into chaos.
Into something that will stay with you long after the sun goes down.

By the time it was over, two gunmen, later confirmed to be a father and son had fired more than 100 rounds. One was killed at the scene; the other was taken into custody in critical condition.

At least 16 innocent people lost their lives, ranging in age from children to elders, and dozens more were wounded. Families, friends, strangers simply enjoying a Sunday evening.

And when it’s over when the adrenaline drains and the dust settles the world will talk. Analyse. Judge from living rooms, comment sections, armchairs.

But before anyone decides what an officer should have done, remember this:

Judgment from the outside is always easier than choice made in the heat of chaos.

18/12/2025

BTB MVP Award

This one’s for one of our seven volunteers at BTB. We all work, we’ve all got families, and we’re all here for the same reason — to help reduce the stigma around men’s mental health.

I’m bloody proud to announce that “The One Guy” is this year’s MVP.

The way One Guy shows up — not just for BTB, but as a mate — is top class. Always there first. Always pushing me to think outside the box.
“Have you got this covered?”
“Have you got that covered?”
“Chrisso, settle down.”

And most importantly… “Are you OK, mate?”

One Guy, you’re a massive credit to BTB. We’re incredibly proud of the work you do and the commitment you show to the cause.

Please join me in congratulating The One Guy, our BTB MVP.

18/12/2025

BTB Legend Award

This one goes to someone who’s always there, always backing the message and helping spread the word about Beyond The Banter.
Whether it’s growing the mo, sharing posts, jumping into lives, donating, or just being an all-round good human — you’re always showing up.

Sunnylad — thank you, mate.

The effort you put in doesn’t go unnoticed, and I’m bloody glad our paths crossed.

Keep doing what you’re doing, legend.

18/12/2025

Beyond The Banter – End of Year Awards

Community Award

This one’s for someone who’s been right in our corner all year and played a big part in making Beyond The Banter what it’s been in 2025. It’s about showing up, backing your mates, and doing it with honesty and heart.

This year’s Community Award goes to Blake Russell – Let The Boys Play / dandbcreative.com.au.

Blake (and Dani), thanks heaps for the constant support and for always getting behind what we do. It honestly means a lot and doesn’t go unnoticed. Legends.

14/12/2025

What happened in Bondi is shocking and deeply distressing.

If you were there, nearby, or witnessed the scenes unfold, please don’t brush off how you’re feeling. Shock, fear, numbness, anger or confusion are all normal responses to something like this. Be aware of them. Talk about them. Check in with the people around you.

It’s still very early and information is limited. In time, we’ll learn more about what support is needed and how best to help. For now, care for yourself and those close to you.

Both of our co-founders grew up around Bondi. Our hearts are breaking for the victims, their families, the community, and everyone affected by what should have been an ordinary day.

We also want to acknowledge the man who ran towards danger and tackled the attacker. That act of courage likely saved many lives. It’s a powerful reminder of the impact one person can have in the most unthinkable moments.

If this has brought anything up for you, please reach out to someone you trust. And if you need professional support, Lifeline is available 24/7 on 13 11 14.

Look after yourselves and each other.

Today is the day.Blacktown Bunnings lets go!!Come on down for a snag and have a chat to the team at Beyond the Banter & ...
06/12/2025

Today is the day.

Blacktown Bunnings lets go!!

Come on down for a snag and have a chat to the team at Beyond the Banter & .traffic.labour

Good conversations and even better snags.

06/12/2025

This Sunday... Bunnings Blacktown.

Thanks to the legends .traffic.labour for sponsoring our bbq.

We are so happy that we share the same passion to end the stigma relating to mens mental health.

Come down say gday and grab a snag.

We would love to meet you

27/11/2025

A huge thank you to the team at Aero Traffic and Labour for coming to the party and backing us for our second Bunnings BBQ on the 7th of December 2025.

This kind of support means the world — it helps us keep doing what we do best: fighting the stigma surrounding men’s mental health and creating real spaces for open conversation.

We can’t wait to be flipping snags, connecting with locals, and continuing the movement.

Community helping community — that’s how change starts.

27/11/2025

A huge thank you to the team at Aero Traffic and Labour for coming to the party and backing us for our second Bunnings BBQ on the 7th of December 2025.

This kind of support means the world — it helps us keep doing what we do best: fighting the stigma surrounding men’s mental health and creating real spaces for open conversation.

We can’t wait to be flipping snags, connecting with locals, and continuing the movement.

Community helping community — that’s how change starts.

24/11/2025

Bunnings Thomastown Saturday 29th November

Come on down and say gday to the crew from Beyond The Banter.

We are looking for local suppliers and the BTB community to assist with donations to purchase the required items for the BBQ.

To donate: https://beyondthebanter.org/donations

We are all looking forward to getting together and having those conversations.

Come on down, have a laugh and grab a snag.

Bravo!
24/11/2025

Bravo!

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