02/04/2026
There’s a version of you in love that keeps repeating itself.
Not because you’re doing it wrong.
Not because you’re choosing “the wrong people.”
But because you’re following a pattern you were never taught to see.
And here’s what shifted everything for me…
My awareness of my own blueprint showed me exactly:
• how I love
• how I attach
• where I override myself
• and what I mistake for connection
Not in a vague, “this is interesting” way…
But in a real-time, oh… this is happening right now kind of way.
Because when you actually understand your tendencies, you start to notice things like:
→ how quickly you feel connected through conversation
→ how you start to lean in when something subtly shifts
→ how you read between the lines instead of taking things at face value
→ how you stay engaged trying to figure it out instead of observing what’s actually there
And that awareness is powerful.
Because now you’re not just in the experience…
👉 you’re watching yourself inside it
You can feel:
• “this is where I usually get hooked”
• “this is where I start overgiving”
• “this is where I ignore the inconsistency”
And instead of continuing the pattern…
You get to choose differently.
This is where your “red flags” and “green flags” stop being theory and start becoming felt.
Red flags aren’t just what someone else is doing.
They’re also:
• where you override your own knowing
• where you stay past clarity
• where you attach to potential over reality
And green flags?
They’re not always fireworks.
They look like:
• consistency
• clarity
• calm in your body
• not needing to analyse or manage anything
This is the work most people skip.
They’re trying to find better people…
Instead of becoming more aware inside their own patterns.
Inside the next container, we go deeper into this.
Not just understanding your blueprint…
But learning how to actually use it
so you can catch the pattern in real time
before it becomes another cycle.
Because once you can see yourself clearly…
You don’t have to keep repeating it.
Today I’m going to give this blue print reading to the 2 people who showed up consistently and the most in my Hidden codes of attraction.
These blueprints will be given to everyone who joins my 12 week container this week.
Or all those who said yes to the additional 1 on 1 support.