01/04/2026
You know that feeling of looking around and thinking “how has everyone figured this out except me?”
Like people are choosing things, settling into them, building something that looks stable and you’re still going back and forth trying to land somewhere that actually feels right.
And it’s frustrating, because you’re not doing nothing. You notice how you feel and you don’t just stay when something feels off. But no one really talks about that part.
There’s a lot of pressure to pick a path, stick to it and make it work…and if you don’t, it starts to feel like you’re the problem. And if you sit in that for too long, you start trusting yourself less. You second guess more, and it begins to feel like you’re always starting again.
Be honest… does it feel like you’re behind, or just that nothing has felt right enough to stay in yet?