05/02/2026
In the early stages of a relationship, it’s easy to feel swept up in the excitement. New connection can awaken hope, longing, and the desire to be fully seen. But it can also stir old attachment patterns, especially the parts of us that fear losing closeness or being misunderstood.
This is why boundaries matter so much at the beginning. Healthy boundaries aren’t walls. They’re guideposts. They help you stay connected to your values, your pace, and your emotional safety. They create space for the relationship to grow without slipping into self‑abandonment or urgency.
If you find boundaries difficult, or if you notice yourself merging quickly, over‑giving, or feeling anxious when things slow down, counselling can help you explore where those patterns come from and what you need to feel secure.
📞 Give us a call at Clearview Pathway to see how we can support you.