Evolve Elevate Fly Life Transformation

Evolve Elevate Fly Life Transformation Change is from Within. I created a safe community for survivors

I am a British & Australian qualified Remedial Massage Therapist, Private TESOL/TEFL ESL English Tutor, Life Transformation & Empowerment Public Speaker leading an alcohol-free healing life.

In 6 days, I will be RACING AGAIN in Indonesia 🏃🏼‍♀️ 🏁 👣 ⛰️ 🇮🇩 🏃🏼‍♀️ After surviving covert narcissism and unbelievable ...
02/02/2026

In 6 days, I will be RACING AGAIN in Indonesia 🏃🏼‍♀️ 🏁 👣 ⛰️ 🇮🇩 🏃🏼‍♀️

After surviving covert narcissism and unbelievable betrayals and trauma, from men who were supposed to protect me from harm, I didn't feel that I was ever going to get my spirit back, and do what I love. I thought I'd lost a piece of my soul, and I wouldn't be able to access it again.

It's taken so much energy to rebuild my soul, everything that was drained from me, rebuilding my life from the bottom again (choosing to be homeless in 2024, rather than endure, tolerate or enable the psychological abuse I survived from the man with the mask who mirrored 🪞 my light, sobriety, empathy, love, and used me, after targetting me).

I won't be silenced ever again, and I use my voice clearly and speak the truth.

I am starting with a small distance 🏃🏼‍♀️ but one thing is for sure, I am back 🔥

Welcome to all women who identify as lived-experience survivors. You are radiant, resilient, and more than enough. I’ve ...
12/12/2025

Welcome to all women who identify as lived-experience survivors. You are radiant, resilient, and more than enough. I’ve created this safe, compassionate, loving, and empowering global community so we can stand together in solidarity. There is deep ancient strength and profound innate magic within every one of you, and together we elevate our wholeness.

Through movement, connection, small moments of joy, shared adventures, time in nature, music, dancing, laughter, creation, rest, play, or training side-by-side in the gym - you are never alone. Enough is enough. Together, we breathe, remember our worth, reclaim our voices, and rise into the fullness of who we are, witnessing and showing up for one another.

I am a survivor of many forms of ab*se and violence from men. I am qualified through The Academy of Modern Applied Psychology and have spoken on multiple public stages across Australia - including for the DVPC/DVIR and the Queensland Government - sharing my journey of survival, therapy, healing, self-reflection, unsafe childhood experiences from males, choosing a substance-free life, using sport as an international elite triathlete to cope, and ultimately walking away from all men who caused harm.

My mission now is to rise alongside other women as we reclaim our power, our voices, our magic, our peace, and our futures.

The greatest compliment one can receive ❤️ I wasn't raised in emotional safety, loving support or real protection, but I...
22/10/2025

The greatest compliment one can receive ❤️
I wasn't raised in emotional safety, loving support or real protection, but I sure have worked hard on myself so others feel safe in my energy and presence 🫂♥️✨️🙏🏾☀️🌞💗

G.R.A.T.I.T.U.D.E. for most chapters of my story 💛 Even thankful for some, that hurt the most, because my light guided m...
06/10/2025

G.R.A.T.I.T.U.D.E. for most chapters of my story 💛 Even thankful for some, that hurt the most, because my light guided me beyond ✨️

There are days that I wish that I hadn't fallen for the future-faking, mirroring, spell of the masked man who created an illusion through performance 🎭 ~ I left my sport because my nervous system and emotional health (and injuries too) weren't allowing me to live in a healthy way. I was isolated and back in survival mode. This couldn't be happening AGAIN? But, the Universe needed me to see and feel the truth.

Had I not have met him, would I have got my Professional Triathlon Licence as planned? Who knows. The Universe knew that I was ready to learn the hardest lesson of them all; that every relationship I got into, reflected my unhealed father wound. The little girl so desperate for real, true, safe, healthy love didn't see all the glaringly obvious signs from the beginning 🚨 I wasn't to know, and it wasn't my fault. I was subconsciously attracted to men similar to my childhood environment. It happens to SO very many of us, and then we become aware.

Choosing to walk away and heal was the bravest decision. Choosing to educate myself and now speak ON STAGES about my lived experiences to help others, takes unbelievable courage. Choosing every day to believe in my strength, resilience and magic, and stand up for myself, and say, "No/This isn't kind/That's not funny/That's inappropriate/That hurts/That's a lie/That's projection" .. and face the consequences of finally having A VOICE. I tell my story, so others can have hope, that there is a way out. Maybe not right now, but when enough is enough.

And when you crawl through shards of your own darkness and through the flames, alight, and survive and flourish on the other side, you rise and can never un-see the truth ✨️✨️🙏🏾🦸🏼‍♀️🧚🏼‍♀️🧞‍♀️💃🏼 Thank you for showing me that character, patterns, and genuine energy are to be trusted, not words 😊 😀 ❤️ I have embraced and faced everything bad that has happened to me, and will continue to speak UP 🫂✨️🙏🏾😘☀️

08/09/2025

We are not whispers, we stand united speaking the truth 🙌 💓🎤❤️

Yesterday, I stood on stage in front of many people at the Disruption Conference, in association with the Domestic Viole...
08/09/2025

Yesterday, I stood on stage in front of many people at the Disruption Conference, in association with the Domestic Violence Prevention Centre, Integrated Response and Queensland Government. We will not be silenced again.

It wasn't the time or distance that mattered, it was my WHY. After a year of healing, I ran for Domestic Violence Preven...
05/07/2025

It wasn't the time or distance that mattered, it was my WHY. After a year of healing, I ran for Domestic Violence Prevention Centre Gold Coast and all the women who have bravely packed their bags, courageously chosen to love themselves, listened to their intuition, ignored the lies and accusations (projected confessions), recovered from the things stolen from them, walked away from covert ab*se behind closed doors, and set themselves free from men with masks, who mirror qualities in others that they want, and use as their public image 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💜💜 Some of us were specifically chosen because we had something, they wanted to use.
18 months ago, this organisation helped me for 6 months, and now I may get the chance to help other women heal who have lived experience too 🙏🏾 Once you experience the stage after love-bombing, it really takes support to heal. ✨️✨️✨️

Discover all that Evolve Elevate Fly has to offer. Mobile Remedial and Relaxation Massage, Corporate Seated Massage, Pub...
29/06/2025

Discover all that Evolve Elevate Fly has to offer. Mobile Remedial and Relaxation Massage, Corporate Seated Massage, Public Speaking (How to Heal yourself from Within), and Life Transformation Coaching. I see you, I hear you. You are whole and enough.

Visit us at https://evolveelevatefly.com today to see what’s waiting for you! With LOVE, Em J

LIVING fully with purpose, JOY and enthusiasm, helping others HEAL themselves. I LOVE sharing my lived experiences that ...
12/06/2025

LIVING fully with purpose, JOY and enthusiasm, helping others HEAL themselves. I LOVE sharing my lived experiences that I've been through, to help others realise their own magical powers 🔋 ✨️ ❤️ 🙏🏾🫂🌈

6 whole YEARS of alcohol-FREE LIVING. ✨️💙💜🩵💫🫂🙏🏾✨️✨️✨️To the little girl, who had no idea what she would have to overcome...
03/06/2025

6 whole YEARS of alcohol-FREE LIVING. ✨️💙💜🩵💫🫂🙏🏾✨️✨️✨️

To the little girl, who had no idea what she would have to overcome, to become who she is today. You were enough, you were a child, it's safe now.

How often do you tell yourself:

💝 "I'm proud of who you are"

💓 "You are enough. You deserve the love you give"

💫 "It wasn't your fault. You're safe now."

🩵 "I'm learning to trust my intuition and feelings"

❤️‍🔥 "I choose to be happy and have fun"

❣️ "I am creating a life that honours my inner child's needs and desires"

💌 "I am creating space for healing and growth"

💕 "I am my own best friend"

❤️‍🩹 "I will protect you now, and I believe you"

💘 "I love you, and I care about you"

💟 "You are important, and it is safe for you to receive love"

🫂🙏🏾🩷🩵💜💙🩷💛🤎❤️🤍



19/01/2025

No Booze Babes and Boys - Are you there?

How has your Dry January gone so far? Ups and Downs?

If we could just teach love and emotional safety/regulation in schools, then don't you feel that's generational wealth? To be fair, it actually starts at "home" .... Teach LOVE ❤️
If we as teachers and parents, could look within at our own behaviour and if we show up safely.
If we could learn how to emotionally regulate (pause, breathe, not react but safely respond after identifying the trigger and emotion) instead of taking our frustrations out on those around us.

If we could show our little boys, it's safe to share your vulnerability and feelings. You don't have to bottle it up and take your anger out on others. You are loved. You are appreciated. You deserve to be nurtured. When you cry, it's OK, it's healthy, it's normal, you won't be punished, you'll be held and comforted ❤️✨️🙏🏾 We want you to work on your wounds, for YOU.

Change starts from within 💛💛💛💛

♡ Letting Go ♡ ❤️ As a passionate SOBRIETY and *Change* speaker, I share from my heart and experiences.2024 has been the...
31/12/2024

♡ Letting Go ♡ ❤️

As a passionate SOBRIETY and *Change* speaker, I share from my heart and experiences.

2024 has been the year of: L e t t i n g G o. ✋️

Letting Go of betrayals that almost broke me.

Letting Go of expectations, replacing with standards and requirements ✨️

Letting Go of people who can not meet my deep emotional safety needs, despite how desperately I wanted to hold on, to the potential/fantasy of what could have been.

Letting GO of trusting just 'words'.. do they follow through with aligned action and embody their words?

Letting go of, "I wish I had/I want..." and just being thankful for every breath I take. 🙏🏾 🎶 🎵

Letting Go of seeking that apology or changed behaviour, and instead reparenting the inner child inside me, and holding childhood wounds with compassion ❤️ You deserve to feel WORTHY

For when we choose and are willing to release the grip we cling on to so very tightly and let go, the Universe gifts us with far more aligned presence. 🎁 💝 The MAGIC is real ✨️ ♥️ 💛 😍

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In Pursuit of Happiness

Hello! Xin Chao! Exercise is great for our mental health, with psychological and physiological benefits too. I am a big advocate of getting outside and enjoying what nature has to offer us. I competed for GBR in Triathlon and qualified for various distances at the Europeans and World Championships, all over the world. I also completed an Ironman in Austria. I am an ITEC Level 3 Sports Remedial Massage Therapist and Mental Health ambassador for England Athletics. I have treated individuals with all varieties of injuries, helped with general body maintenance and worked with clients to relieve their chronic painful areas. I can help with nutritional advice too, as I used to train 3 times a day and followed a plan to help me compete to the best of my ability. Whether you are training towards a specific goal or just want to be outside, meet new friends and take part in fun group activities, feel free to drop me a message and I am happy to meet to discuss helping you on your way to a healthier, less painful lifestyle :) I look forward to meeting you :)