20/12/2025
Last night I saw a post about being the creator of my own life.
I’ve heard it a thousand times before.
I know it.
But last night, I felt it.
At 9pm I decided we were going to head out early for brekkie at the beach, a play at the park, and a swim.
I threw the sausages in the oven while prepping for a quick vacate the next day.
Off to bed, then woke to share the plan…
Here’s how the day unfolded - depending on how I chose to see it.
Option A:
Got elbowed in the eye before I even got out of bed.
Boys whinged they weren’t going to see their friends.
Complaints about the “long drive” (we hadn’t even left our town)
Odin desperate for a p*e whilst I’m driving on highway.
Wind blowing the gas flame, pan taking forever to heat
My fool proof non-stick eggs method failed.
Put butter in cooler bag = unspreadable butter.
Forgot a bowl to whisk the eggs.
Boys complained could see whites in the scrambled eggs.
Odin stung 3x by a hornet.
Forgot first aid bag.
8 min walk to pharmacy felt like 30 in the hot sun.
Got lost in caravan park and walked twice as far as needed.
Jada did massive poo in the ocean next to kids playing.
Barking at paddleboarders.
Barking at boys running in the water.
Prawns are now $50 a kg!!! Remember when they were $15.
Go home and discovered Jada had p*ed in the car.
Zac smashed glass jar full of sultanas – glass as far as all four walls.
Jada p*ed in the hallway.
Boys extra loud and silly as I cooked and washed up.
Boys being silly instead of getting ready for bed.
Option B:
Boys excited to possibly meeting new friends.
Lots of laughs in the back of the car..
Got to the loo just in time after the hour drive.
Jada and I met a lovely couple and their kelpie waiting for pan to heat.
Noticed six-packs and glistening skin instead of the usual t**s and arses at the beach.
Had ice pack for Odin’s sting which calmed him straight away.
Got to see caravan park we were considering visiting.
All of us lying on the grass under a tree, feeling a beautiful cool breeze.
Zacs head resting on my lap.
Odin being hilarious with hide and seek.
Boys climbing trees.
Jada playing with another kelpie.
Boys jumping off pier with new friends.
Sat with Jada watching the boys and spoke with a gentleman in his 80s telling me about how he met his wife, and how beautiful Jada was.
Got two new clients.
Jada playing with another puppy.
Told a lady I loved her dress and her little girl thought I meant her All Blacks t-shirt.
Had Ferrero Rocher icecream.
Proud of how I handled the boys mayhem and breakages.
Pet shop lady recognised us - donated to Riding for the Disabled and kids learning to read by reading to dogs.
Washed up with music playing while the boys played outside.
Spoke with hubby lying on the bed with the boys, all of us laughing.
Extra-long kisses and savoured cuddles with my boys.
Journalling.
Feeling proud of the day I created.
Same day.
Same events.
Different focus.
Such an epic reminder of how intention - and what I choose to give energy to - changes everything.