27/11/2025
Everyone’s waiting for the right time, waiting for enough money, waiting till life isn’t so busy or exhausting or hectic.
They’re wishing they could do it. They’re hoping someone else will change. They’re giving all of their power away.
So nothings actually moving.
Except you’re getting more pi**ed off, more unhappy, more frustrated at yourself and the things you want to change? Are getting more set in to your nervous system, your subconscious and your autopilot. You’re not just ignoring what you want and destroying any self trust…. You’re making those sabotage patterns and habits stronger.
You have to accept what you don’t know. You have to take responsibility for what’s not working and your excuses that you keep coming up with. And you have to decide if you really want it or not. And if it’s important to you, if it’s something that you truly value and crave… you’ll find a way. You’ll say yes even when you’re freaking the F out. You’ll tell people enough is enough and set boundaries so you’re treated in the way that you deserve.
You won’t settle. You won’t stay small. You won’t shrink. You won’t silence yourself. You won’t hide your heart and your truth. You won’t stay overweight and disgusted. You won’t keep doing things that make you feel worse and filled with shame.
You’ll actually show up and do the work. You won’t let the inner mean girl win. You’ll say yes to where your heart leads. You’ll get curious and trust. You’ll put yourself in spaces that make you uncomfortable and help you see what you can’t see. And you’ll give yourself permission to be worthy. To invest in your health, your happiness. And you’ll see that it’s not selfish but it’s actually a gift. To your loved ones, your children, and everyone in your space. They want you to win. And if they don’t, then you’re in the wrong space.
Stop saying you can’t. And ask why it makes you so damn uncomfortable to choose yourself.
Can you tell I’m in a mood? But seriously… enough’s enough.
If you want to change, do the work.
If you don’t, stop complaining about it.
If you do, I’m here 👋🏼
Hi. I’m Amanda. I met rock bottom and didn’t want to live. And now I’m glad I stayed.
I spent 32 years ticking boxes, people pleasing and having no idea who I was, what I wanted and what made me happy. I just did what I thought I was meant to do until I realised my soul was drained and I had everything but it felt like I had nothing.
After almost giving up, thinking nothing would ever work for me, that I was broken, I’ve learned the exact tools and strategies that not only saved my life, but changed my life.
And now I help other women unstuck themselves and start living for themselves.
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