01/01/2026
What would you say to a good friend who just made a mistake?
Now ask yourself: do you speak to yourself the same way?
For most of us, the answer is no. We're often our own harshest critic—saying things to ourselves we'd never dream of saying to someone we care about.
But here's what two decades of research tells us: that inner critic isn't helping you. It's keeping you stuck.
Self-compassion isn't about letting yourself off the hook or lowering your standards. It's about giving yourself the same kindness and understanding you'd offer a friend—especially when things get hard.
The science is clear: self-compassion reduces anxiety and depression, builds resilience, and actually increases motivation (not the other way around).
I've just published a guide covering:
🧠 The neuroscience of why self-kindness changes your brain and body
💚 Dr Kristin Neff's three pillars of self-compassion
🔥 Why self-compassion can feel uncomfortable at first (and what to do about it)
🛠️ Practical exercises you can start using today
Here's the link: https://bit.ly/4qArzQd
You deserve the same compassion you so freely give to others. 🤍