28/10/2025
IMPORTANT NOTICE β¨β¨β¨
"Wildflower Sanctuary Events"
Good morning everyone πππ¦
I felt I needed to pop in here, and just share honestly, where I am at, at the moment, and the decisions I have made regarding our events for the remainder of this year.
I value supporting others, HIGHLY. So highly, that I will often do so, to my own detriment. I will continue on, until I am absolutely drained and depleted. Because, I care. A lot.
And - it was part of my own conditioning, to put others before myself and that having my own boundaries - were unacceptable. It's time for me to break that conditioning.
As an adult woman, I know, that this is not healthy - nor sustainable. And that having boundaries is an important part of any relationship. However where it comes to caring for others - whilst this has been one of my greatest strengths, this has also been my greatest weakness in regards to boundaries. And something that I need to continue to become more aware of and develop π
Lately I have become more deeply aware of how I have placed myself in the role, as "supporter" in my life, and across most, of my relationships.
With Twigs passing this month, I crashed. And in that crashing, I became even more aware of just how much - I was trying to hold up. That I have been overextending myself across far too many areas - mentally and emotionally. And apparently, I am NOT "Wonder Woman" (Contrary to the beliefs of many around me lol).
Whilst I am "okay". Lately, on a daily basis, I just feel terribly drained. And I am wise enough to know, that I cannot be of best support across so many areas, if my cup is not overflowing π I need to learn better boundaries - particularly around supporting others. Without that fear of "what will happen if I don't?". And being more respectful of my own needs. I need to speak more truthfully - about what I do and don't have the internal resources for. And for now, I need to hit that giant big pause button and focus on supporting myself and my primary responsibilities first and foremost.
It is thru what I experience and what I learn, I am able to be of best support for others - including our youth. And I do believe, that what I learn over this time, will be valuable lessons, that I will be able to pass on.
In saying all of this, I have decided to take a break from hosting events, for the rest of this year. Wildflower Sanctuary and it's community matters to me a great deal. And I know it means a lot to all of the girls. And. In order for it to be as supportive as it can be - I too, need to be in the best shape I can be π¦πππ‘
So, that will be my focus for the rest of this year. Myself. And. My beautiful daughter xx
I want to thank everyone for their support and belief in us this year.. you all mean the world to me. And I look forward to bringing the space into a new bloom next year π·π»πͺ»
Xoxo Cheyenne