06/05/2020
Ahoy to all the parents out there, trying to home educate their kids while also trying to work from home, and do all the other day to day stuff that keeps a family going. Itâs hard work, with many parents either deciding to write this term off, or battling with kids to keep up with online or workbook style lessons.
I have utter respect for teachers and the work that they do, and weâve got to remember theyâve done a degree and put in hours/days/weeks of unpaid time preparing lesson plans to teach our little darlings. You canât expect yourself to be able to fill that role without any training. At best, I think I can step up and be a tutor, but I canât fill the role of a dedicated team of teachers. Iâve set myself the task of re-learning trigonometry this week, so I can help my fifteen year old with this, weâll see how that goes, at some point I might be phoning a friend to help talk him through it. But thatâs not within everyoneâs realm of achievable, and it doesnât have to be.
Personally I think the most important thing to focus on this term is your relationship with your kid/s. Fighting with them to learn the nuances of a text theyâre not interested in or not motivated to learn is just stressful, for you and for them. Perhaps this termâs curriculum needs to be more flexible â what can you teach them (ie: what are your skills?)? And what are they interested in? This is easier with younger kids, because so much can be done through play based learning, rhymes, counting games and reading together. For older kids â dig out a book you loved and read it together, discuss the salient points, the subtleties. And teach them life-skills â but choose ones you feel confident to teach, or can be humble enough to learn alongside them â cooking (Italian/Greek/JapaneseâŠ), gardening, timber working, animal care, painting, crafting, meditation, yoga⊠Whatever you can do together, that doesnât add stress, but instead builds on their confidence to learn new things. I wonder if we can enrich our childrenâs education during this period of isolation, so that they look back at this time fondly, as a time they developed their creativity, resilience, and self-reliance, and further built on their connections with those around them.
Here are some very cool online resources below that might help get the creative/flexible thinking going:
Websites for teaching kids at home. I do love it when my friends do all the thinking/ organising for međ. Thanks !