Transformational Life Choices

01/07/2025

What is TLC? Transformational Life Choices -
How can your life change for the better?

Take an honest look at yourself and choose to work on the things that stop you from being the best version of yourself.
Is this an easy thing to do? Not always...change is often uncomfortable, but it is far more damaging to stay in your comfort zone if the results you are getting in your life are far from optimal. It's easier when you have a trusted guide to help you on your journey.

What is currently unfamiliar may seem strange and even threatening, but how do you get to do anything differently if you do everything on autopilot or out of habit?

TLC can help you move towards your goals, to break free from the status quo and make yourself a new 'familiar'...something that serves you better and helps you achieve the things in life that you daydream about. No more pushing yourself aside just because it’s a little scary or confusing.

The helping hand of an experienced coach or counsellor can make this choice a more achievable reality.
Take action today so that tomorrow is better than yesterday. Call Shirley on 0415 850 909 for a confidential conversation about where you'd like to head and how you can change your life for the better. Email TLC today: Shirley@tlc4u.com.au
# opportunity # happiness -love

17/06/2025

Do you know how your childhood beliefs might be impacting your life right now? We formulate a lot of beliefs about how the world works, who we are, how others perceive us, and how much happiness we deserve as small children. At a subconscious level these beliefs impact our choices in the future. Some people will play out the same story over and over again, wondering why their life can’t be any different. Without knowing what your pattern is, it’s hard to create a new one, one that is more suited to your authentic self. You may not even realise what beliefs are running your life behind-the-scenes. If you don’t know what your pattern is, how can you break it and create something that will serve you better?

16/01/2025

Agree or not?

01/01/2025

Our journey together starts from a dream, a vision, a desire to be our best. Working within our capacity on a daily basis will help us take whatever steps we can toward our goal. Babies crawl before they walk, and walk before they run: here’s to our baby steps and a brighter 2025.

01/01/2025

Out with the old, in with the new.
Winds of change, I welcome you!
A fresh start, a renewed spirit,
New opportunities to pursue,
Let the past rest, let the future unfold,
With open hearts, we're ready to grow,
Lessons learned, our strength is earned.
Step forward with hope, and courage in tow,
Embracing the journey wherever we go.

28/12/2024

28/12/2024

Support is available if you need it. Pass this on to others in case they need it too.

27/12/2024

“Disappointment changes us.”
How might this statement be true for you?

25/11/2024

Do you often get told “you’re so strong”? It sounds like a compliment but it creates a situation where you feel you can’t ask for help even if you need it as this will disappoint others. Feeling you have to be strong and stay strong keeps you in a prison of people pleasing or inauthencity: you try not to show vulnerability or be a burden to others, you take responsibility for things others could do, you hide needs even from yourself! You become needless in the eyes of others, you’re the one they can rely on, the one they don’t need to worry about…lonely, empty, fragile inside, yet always there for others, always capable, reliable, resilient…exhausted and depressed, anxious and struggling with your worth, yet never letting them see you sweat, cry or fall down, burnt out and flat because you can’t keep holding everyone up and you need support too.
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22/11/2024

Appearances can be deceptive- don’t believe every thought you have about other people… you might be wrong!

21/11/2024

One of the biggest problems we struggle with is being super critical of our own humanity- we tend to think we should somehow be perfect or super human. All of us have flaws and we all have strengths. The standard we hold ourselves to is often higher than that which we hold others too… is that fair? Is that reasonable? Isn’t this setting us up to fail. Positive Psychology helps us to be okay with our humanness. When we practice self-compassion and let ourselves be the perfectly imperfect humans we are, we are happier, healthier and a force for good in the world.