15/11/2025
The 5 WORST tips I hear for painful s*x (please stop)... 🚩
🚩 "Just use more l**e"
Lubrication masks the problem; it doesn't fix it. If your tissues are tense, inflamed, or your muscles are in spasm, l**e is a band-aid on a bullet wound. You need to address WHY pe*******on hurts, not just make it slide easier.
🚩 "Have a glass of wine to relax"
Alcohol doesn't relax your pelvic floor muscles - it numbs your brain's ability to feel pain signals. You're still damaging tight tissues; you just can't feel it happening. This creates more injury and more dysfunction long-term.
🚩 "Just push through it, it gets better"
NO. Pain during s*x is your body's alarm system screaming STOP. Pushing through pain creates more muscle tension, more fear response, and more trauma. You're literally training your body that s*x = danger.
🚩 "Do more Kegels to tighten up"
If you have pain with pe*******on, your pelvic floor is likely ALREADY too tight. More squeezing creates more tension, more trigger points, and guess what? More pain. You need release work, not strengthening.
🚩 "It's all in your head, just relax."
This is gaslighting disguised as advice. Your pain is REAL. Your tight muscles are REAL. Your tissue sensitivity is REAL. Telling someone to "relax" doesn't fix dysfunctional muscles or hormonal tissue changes.
Here's what actually helps:
Pelvic floor physiotherapy that addresses muscle tension, breathing coordination, tissue health, and proper release techniques. Not generic advice from people who don't understand pelvic anatomy.
I help women get evidence-based solutions for painful intimacy that actually work - not harmful myths that make you suffer longer.
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