12/03/2023
Who relates?It is one of the biggest struggles we deal with … when our brains decide it wants to change our focus, a combination or easy distractability & impulsivity.
Even though this appears to be a negative trait, it is also a ‘Gift’. Let me explain …
Why? Simply put, this is a form of . For example, when doing a session & you are trying to come up with various scenarios, this ‘all over the shop’ thinking with ideas dumping into your head, out of your mouth & in dot points on paper [preferably by someone else who is a well organised lineal thinker], this would not happen in such a creative way UNLESS you …
Link Thinking is my term for that leads you in another direction, what people term as , “going off track” or “losing focus”. This common ADHD trait is a strength in the right situation. It is how scientific discoveries are made & problems solved.
Essentially, ADHD people could not think in a straight line if you paid them … they think in a zig zag thought process. If they go out ‘on a tangent’, don’t pull them up and put them down as often happens, ask them “you said this … then this … how did you come up with this? I’m interested.”
If I do this and see ‘THAT LOOK’ on their confused face 😂, I will stop immediately, pause & say, “Do you want to know how I came up with that.” Unless you explain to the Neuro-typical listener, they won’t understand nor will they change their perception of you, concentrating on the negative & not the positive.
For every trait that Others see as Negative, there is a POSITIVE. By ‘Others’ I mean non-ADHD people. The population. As an example, the Distractibility Trait is necessary in situations. There is a need for a rescuer to be able to see the and not what is in front of them.
There is a need for the person doing a rescue having the ability to take in & scan the environment, think of all possible outcomes, then choosing the best way to solve the problem & act on it … all in seconds. The same can be said for ADF personnel in war zones.
Then kicks in, a trait that is deemed a negative in many situations. In the RIGHT environment, such as … when fighting of mammoth proportions … in active war zones u der fire … they need to act immediately, after their brain has taken in all information & come up with the best course of action.
Some would call this being a Quick Decision Maker … all based on our , intuition, impulsivity trait, being easily distracted & overall Life Experience … something we tend to have diversity in. After all, we DO tend to multi-task!