25/03/2026
Why you may be getting limited results in your EFT/Tapping self practice.
Factor 8.
Skipping over uncomfortable things.
Have you ever followed along to a workout video at home and just skipped your least favourite exercise in the video, or cut it short early? If you had been in a class you would definitely have done the full workout, but on your own you skip over the parts that are more challenging, yet may get you the benefits you are after.
When doing self work with EFT we tend to do the same. While we don’t always have time to delve into deeper work, each bit of effective EFT helps us towards our overall goals of eliminating emotional disturbances around specific triggers.
Often one of the reasons for this is only using the basic recipe for everything. When things outside of our window of tolerance (the uncomfortable things) come up, the basic recipe isn’t recommended.
Another reason is that we can’t process every bit on our own. The safety we feel when working with a skilled clinical practitioner helps us feel regulated and we are able to work on a deeper level than on our own as the appropriate techniques are used to keep you in your window of tolerance, whatever comes up in the session.
Sometimes it’s something we feel we can say but we are disconnected to the underlying emotions around it so we don’t even realise how much it affects us until we are in a safe space with someone who can guide us through processing it.
Other times it’s the things we feel we can’t say, and there are specific clinical EFT techniques designed for this. Even when working with a practitioner you can clear the distress without having to say anything about the event.
Most importantly is closing the session in a way where you are regulated and able to leave what you are working on where it is, so you can comfortably go about the rest of your day.
With the right practitioner for you, you will have more effective shifts from your use of EFT.