24/02/2026
As we finish a week of having our new clinic dog-in-training at home (and at the clinic in short bursts), I’ve been reflecting on regulation, hers and ours.
This week we’ve watched her learn to settle after excitement. To move from zoomies to rest. To find her calm with support (sometimes LOTS of support). Some days she’s bold and curious; other days she’s easily overstimulated and needs help regulating her little nervous system in a big world.
It’s such a reminder of what we see in therapy every day.
Regulation isn’t about “being good.” It’s about capacity, and capacity grows in the context of safe, attuned relationships. Through consistency, patience and connection.
As humans, we’re no different. We each have our own temperament and thresholds. We don’t need to change our wiring, but we do need environments that help us regulate within them, support from others, and skills to do it.
Week one has reminded me that growth isn’t linear, regulation is relational, and connection changes everything.