10/11/2025
How healthy do you feel?
If you feel unhealthy most days, why is that? What's going on for you?
It can be difficult to know ourselves, if we have layers of self criticism, lots of explanations, lots of history we carry on our shoulders.
We can avoid some hard truths...we add layers of complexity that cover up our reality, like a cake that is beautifully decorated. We can fixate on the icing, the embellishments, and overlook our reality.
If you are feeling exhausted by seemingly wasted efforts to become healthier, you may be weighing yourself down by too much complexity. There's a lot of information out there. Lots of options. Everyone has advice. With so much noise about becoming healthier, it's hard to think straight.
All you know is that you are cut off from the better version of yourself.
Have you tried to become healthier....to eat better, to exercise, or stop an unhealthy habit like smoking...only to find your efforts fail you?
You may make detailed plans only to find yourself back where you were. Still feeling unhealthy. Or you ping-pong between times you feel healthy and times you feel unhealthy.
Do you know how common this is? We've overcomplicated our lives.
If this is a time to reset, I respectfully suggest giving up all the baggage, all the detailed changes, all the explanations.
What one or two things would make a difference to feeling healthy?
Yes, you may have many aspirations. But, putting aside for the time being all that you want to do, would do in a perfect world, what is not helping?
Gaining clarity on this is the perfect starting point to becoming a healthier version of yourself.
Focusing on one or two things ONLY will free you from being bogged down in trying to do too much at the same time.
You may be stuck by having too many 'shoulds' and 'musts' in your life. Are you willing to give yourself some freedom?
By letting go of all that you might do, and just holding in your mind's eye the one thing you can do something about, you are ready to be healthier.
Let go of all the various strategies that are 'over-egging' the omelette. Just get clear on the one or two things you know will make a difference, and you will clear the way to make a change for the better.