24/09/2025
I did something today that was so simple yet so incredibly hard.
I took myself on a date.
Why?
The question is. Why not?
Why haven’t I done this more for myself?
Why do I have such a weird fear around sitting by myself and enjoying my own company.
I’ve had SO MANY Kinesiology Balances around learning to love myself and to be ok in my own company. Not reliant on others and then missing out on life when they say no as of them saying no was a deciding factor on me enjoying that thing I’ve been waiting on doing.
I’m great fun!
Everyone talks about the fun they have In my company.
Why can’t I provide that same vibe for myself?
I sat and enjoyed my favourite treat (Lavender Scone and Earl Grey Tea) and read 50 pages of my book.
No one complained about how it tastes like soap. No one wanted to eat and bail straight away.
No one was glutened by accident.
Why do we stress so much about doing things socially by ourselves?
Why can we meet our girlfriends out for coffee without a second thought.
But we can’t meet ourselves out for coffee?
I felt so alive leaving that cafe. I smiled the whole drive leaving. Knowing I showed up for me and how nice that felt. Sunroof open, smashing pumpkins playing through the stereo. Knowing I conquered something that shouldn’t have even been a fear?
I urge everyone reading it this far,
PLEASE Take yourself on a date this week!!
Ice cream at the beach
Coffee at the park
Sit down for pasta somewhere nice
Do something for you this week without over thinking it. Show yourself how much you’re worth putting the time aside for.
It’s about damn time 🙌🏻