06/11/2025
Perimenopause isn’t subtle.
It doesn’t tap you on the shoulder.
It kicks the fkn door in and rearranges your entire life without asking. SAVAGE.
One day you’re functioning.
The next you’re crying in the bathroom, exhausted from nothing, forgetting your own words, snapping at everyone, and wondering if you’re actually losing it.
You’re not.
Your hormones are changing faster than you can adapt -
and the world expects you to pretend nothing’s happening.
Perimenopause exposes everything you used to tolerate:
the people, the pressure, the pace, the coping mechanisms.
Your body starts rejecting anything that isn’t aligned -
and it doesn’t apologise for it. Everything feels like your skin is crawling. Grating against your very last nerve.
This isn’t weakness.
This is your biological upgrade.
A forced shedding.
A brutal awakening.
A complete recalibration of your nervous system, hormones and identity.
And if no one has said this to you yet:
You’re not crazy.
You’re not failing.
You’re not “too emotional.”
You’re in perimenopause -
and it’s rewriting everything you outgrew.
This is the part no one talks about.
But we are now.
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