29/12/2025
And this right here is part of the conversation that so many women are paying attention to.
If midwives themselves are openly saying that it’s not safe to be awake, concentrating and providing care for that long, it’s no wonder more and more women are questioning the system they’re expected to birth within.
Women can see the cracks. Exhausted staff, unsafe rosters, rushed decision-making, and care that’s constrained by systems rather than centred on physiology or individual needs.
When the hospital environment feels overwhelmed and under-resourced, it makes complete sense that women start looking elsewhere, to home birth, continuity-of-care models, and for some, even freebirth, not because they’re reckless, but because they’re actively seeking safety, calm, presence and truly attentive care.
This isn’t about blaming midwives, many are doing extraordinary work under impossible conditions. It’s about acknowledging that a system which routinely expects people to function while overtired is not a system that feels safe to labouring women.
Until these realities are honestly addressed, women will continue to rightly question and even avoid the hospital system.
'It’s not safe, and no other profession is expected to stay awake, give care and concentrate for that long'