Thelo

17/04/2026

Most people fear what they don't understand.

That's been the case, especially when it comes to martial arts.

Comments like, 'it encourages violence', or 'the kids will start fighting'.

The above already happens, and it has nothing to do with martial arts. Who remembers play-fighting? Was it something we learned off a martial arts instructor or something we were exposed to via television shows or these days gaming.

In fact, there's so much research out there that supports the benefits of martial arts.

Suggesting that martial arts can have a positive effect on children from all walks of life. It really just depends on who's teacher and how.

It's addional beneficial when you actually use it as a combination and / or alternative to mainstream therapy like i do.

I can guarantee that the way I teach it will build your child's confidence, self-esteem, self-worth, and emotional regulation.

Thank you for being here from day one.

Also, a BIG THANK YOU, to Dave from FanCast Productions for putting this all together.

If interested, please contact me via the website www.theloactivetherapy.com or DM me.

16/04/2026

Friendship can look different for everyone.

Some of us will go above and beyond, and others will give the bare minimum.

In this example, Nicolle explains how her son chose to do Ramadam (for the second time) to show solidarity to his friends.

He wanted to be part of something bigger than himself, but to share in what it meant to do Ramadam.

It just goes to show the compassion, kindness, and heart this young man has for his friends.

If only we had all friends like him.

You can watch the full episode on YouTube or listen on Spotify.

Thank you for being here from the very beginning.

www.theloactivetherapy.com

14/04/2026

As a parent, you're always going to worry about your child, no matter how old they get.

This is only magnified when you're the parent of a neurodivergent child.

You wake up worried, you spend your day worried, you go to sleep worried.

You exhaust all possibilities.

It's a never-ending cycle.

However, as Nicolle explains, there is light at the end of the tunnel.

Just take a listen to how well her son is doing now.

You can watch the full episode on YouTube or listen on Spotify.

Thank you for being here from the very beginning.

www.theloactivetherapy.com

11/04/2026

11/04/2026

I have learned so much working with the neurodivergent.

One thing that really sticks out is how determined they are in achieving a goal.

I remember working through a new combo with Nicolle's son. He struggled with it but made sure he was ready in his next session.

I think those who are not on the spectrum tend to take this mindset for granted.

All the more reason to embrace those who are neurodivergent.

As Nicolle explains, we should show more compassion, be inclusive, welcome diversity, and don't exclude.

You can watch the full episode on YouTube or listen on Spotify.

Thank you for being here from the very beginning.

www.theloactivetherapy.com

09/04/2026

Most parents will do anything to help their child, and this mother is no exception.

So, what do you do when your autistic child is being severely bullied at school, but the department chooses to do nothing?

You rent a house to get your son into a different school, of course.

That's right, you read this correctly.

Nicolle tried everything to get her child the support he needed, which in this case meant changing schools.

But the department refused to help. Apparently, there was nothing they could do, so this mum took matters into her own hands.

The family knew there were no guarantees this would work, but they felt like they had no other choice.

Was it the right move?

You'll have to listen to find out.

You can watch the full episode on YouTube or listen on Spotify.

Please, SHARE, LIKE, FOLLOW OR SUBSCRIBE.

Hope you enjoy the listen.

www.theloactivetherapy.com

08/04/2026

EPISODE 2 HAS JUST DROPPED!
Episode 2 of The Boxer Within is officially LIVE!
Meet Nicolle, a mother of two boys, the oldest with ADHD and autism.

Nicolle's story is about resilience, advocacy, and the power of finding the right environment and support for your kids.

This is just the beginning. Thank you for watching from day one.
www.theloactivetherapy.com

Watch now on YouTube.



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https://youtu.be/eS0dUeLHH2I?si=mcK9zm_HS02Gg4ak

05/04/2026

Lots of children can struggle with their social skills, but especially the neurodivergent.

Meeting new people or going to a new place can be really hard.

As Adrian explains, it's all about taking one step at a time.

Going to the park, for example, can be a real challenge.
That's why you start off small, like just walking to the park. If that's all you do today, that's ok.

He continues in saying that even when his son started martial arts in his younger years. It was one, two times, to get him to do it. It wasn't straight away.

Obviously, having good teachers with good teaching skills helped.

With a bit of time, hard work and sweat, and a lot of angry emotions, it worked.

However, this was Adrian's experience and might be different for someone else.

That said, it's about letting them go at their own pace.

To watch the full episode head to my YouTube channel.

www.theloactivetherapy.com

05/04/2026

SCHOOL HOLIDAY MARTIAL ARTS PROGRAM!

In begins NEXT TUESDAY APRIL 14TH!

Looking for a fun, active, confidence boosting holiday activity?

My Martial Arts Holiday Program is open to all school-age children! Kids will learn self-defence skills, build confidence, make new friends, and burn off holiday energy in a safe, supportive environment.

Parents also welcomed!

Cost: $80 per student.
Location: TBA.
Duration: 3 hours.
Break in between - Fruit to be provided.
Minimum of 4 students to proceed.

Contact me via the website www.theloactivetherapy.com or DM me.

04/04/2026

Many parents believe they know better than their children.

While that might be true in some instances, it's not always the case. Just ask Adrian!

He explains that his children see things differently than he would.

And although he may feel he's right, he's willing to listen to their perspective.

Adrian also states that he's been corrected many times, which is something he appreciates. 'They see things differently, in a much better way.'

So, let me leave you with this...

How boring would it be if we all saw things the same?

Thankfully, Adrian's children don't.

To watch the full episode on The Boxer Within Podcast, head to my YouTube channel.

www.theloactivetherapy.com



Thank you,

03/04/2026

How do you help your struggling child?

I can't imagine the challenges that parents/carers and guardians face as a family and / or single unit.

The resilience that they show in finding resources for their children, it's awe inspiring.

As Adrian explains, there is help out there. You just have to look.

Just grab every opportunity!

It might not work the second or third time. It maybe takes 10 times.

It also doesn't have to be mainstream. It's just a matter of trying.

He also states, '1 know with my son, martial arts, that's his life now. He absolutely loves it.'

To watch the full episode head to my YouTube channel.

www.theloactivetherapy.com