20/11/2025
REPOST🦋
He doesn’t understand why she wants to shake things up…
She doesn’t get why he is resisting growth…
He thinks things are going well
No need to rock the boat.
She wants to tip the boat over.
Why is that?
Why this agitation in the feminine
To always reach for the next thing
“Can’t we just enjoy it here?”
He asks…
Sure… we can… but just for a bit.
And then… we move on to the next thing.
What is it this week?
Attachment. Polarity. Spirituality.
Something new.
There is an endless urge in the feminine
(in all of us)
To find the next form.
She is like an infinite butterfly
Constantly transitioning
From caterpillar to cocoon to flying free
And back again.
Cycle after cycle after cycle.
To the masculine this is exhausting
He can’t keep up.
He doesn’t cycle this fast.
He looks at her like she is crazy
Unsatisfiable.
And he feels inadequate
Frustrated
Resentful.
Yet at the same time she sees him
Resisting. Belligerent. Unmoving.
His pleas for peace
Feel like a weight
Dragging her down.
But the thing is…
They are both doing what they are supposed to.
The feminine mutates
The masculine stabilises
Mutation + Stabilisation = Evolution
The perfect complement to each other.
..... IF .....
They only learnt to love the difference.
She IS seeking the next form
in a never ending process of mutation
Experimentation… discovery… exploration
Sometimes this journey yields incredible transformations
Other times maybe not.
Yet this is what she does.
At the same time he is the perfect balance.
He takes each growth pulse from her
And finds the way to anchor it into reality
To make it real, lasting, enduring.
She reaches, he grounds.
She is fast moving, quantum.
He is slower, methodical, persistent.
Linear.
When they work in synergy
The relationship tests new potentials
Finding the ones that work
And building them in to become part of who they are.
Evolution in process.
He learns to love her mutational chaos
Valuing the richness it brings to them.
She learns to love his grounded stability
Valuing the structure it brings to them.
The difference between pleasure and pain
Is whether there is consciousness
To honour and love
The dance.
Or not. ❤️