11/12/2025
I wish someone told us earlier that “the pill” was never the full plan. Most of us weren’t actually “managed,” we were paused.
Paused symptoms, paused questions, paused answers. but not healed.
And then when everything flared again, we blamed ourselves.
We thought our bodies were the problem.
We thought we were doing something wrong.
We thought pain coming back meant we were “getting worse.”
But this is a load of bu****it, I know it and now you know it; your body never stopped asking for help.
It just didn’t get the kind of help it needed.
Endo, adeno, chronic pelvic pain, they don’t live in one organ. It lives in your fascia, your nerves, your pelvic floor, your diaphragm, your lymphatics, your immune system, your history, even your mind (not literally lesions on your brain (which fiy can happen)).
Birth control can change hormones, but it can’t unwind a lifetime of tension, trauma, inflammation, or mechanical load.
And none of us were told that.
Not once.
If you feel comfortable, I genuinely want to hear your experience:
Were you ever offered anything beyond birth control?
Did anyone ever explain why your pain kept coming back?
You’re not dramatic.
You’re not imagining it.
You’re not “difficult.”
You were under-treated 🖤🌸