16/11/2025
Working with people is challenging at times! 😍🤔🫥😶🌫️🫠
Last week, I received my first 1-star review.
Honestly, I am really taking it to heart as I do with any review 💘
However, it is funny because it is actually helping me redefine who I am to myself first, and then secondly, as someone who works in the space of deep connection with my own and other people's vulnerability.
As someone who really wants the best for people (clients, family, friends, etc) it is exposing a wedge of uncomfortable energy & vulnerability within me:
🌞Caring what others think
(and as I run a small biz that is certainly an important consideration, and I have spent alot of time putting the needs of others above my own)
and
🏅Doing my best (and I don't just mean showing up, I literally mean giving my clients the best version of myself at that time)
As I sit with the comments from someone who was very disappointed and unhappy with her session. I really don't have much to add. It wasn't a great session. That was evident to both of us on the day.
My work with clients in not a one-way street ⚡⚡⚡
I do not have all the answers.
If you are prepared to be open and vulnerable with yourself, while being that way in front of another, then maybe you are ready to remove a layer of your own s**t.
If you think that is what I do, then you have been swallowing too much of what social media and Hollywood peddle - that you are here to be helped and healed by someone else.
You are your own healer, your own answer to your own prayers.
I know this has been sent to help me, I hope, as we are all mirrors for each other that this client also sees what lesson was in it for them.
Thanks to all those wonderful, vulnerable clients I work with who show up and allow me to witness them and their journeys - I see you 💜
*these reviews left were from the same day.
