12/02/2026
At some point, doubt stops feeling like curiosity and starts feeling like fear.
When people repeatedly question their own memory, psychology often sees a nervous system trained to second guess itself. The mind learns to stay alert, replaying details to avoid being wrong again. Here is the uncomfortable truth. Self doubt is not always uncertainty, it can be protection. When reality was once challenged or minimised, the brain adapts by outsourcing certainty. Healing begins when your inner record is taken seriously again. Trust is not rebuilt through proof, but through safe relationships where your experience is allowed to stand without defence.
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