26/12/2025
The last month in snaps 📸
I’ve got to say, going from 0–1 was definitely easier than going from 1–3.
The upside? Wayyyy less anxiety about the little things (are they breathing?! what TOG do I dress them in? etc). I can’t believe these things haven’t even taken up any brain space yet, when it’s all I used to thing about!! But doing everything twice is HARD.
I’ve had to make decisions purely to make life easier. For example, I would love to breastfeed, but there just isn’t enough time in the day (especially with a toddler), so I’m exclusively pumping - which means others can help with feeds.
We’ve also stuck with the special care nursery feed/sleep routine, which definitely has its pros… and cons (I know you get it). If I was truly feeding on demand I’d literally not leave the couch and we wouldn’t get any sleep.
I’m always outnumbered. I can’t just “pop out” to the shops like I did with my first. And I can’t leave all three kids with my husband, or mum, for a day (yet!!).
This isn’t me complaining, it’s just me sharing the raw side of life right now. Because Instagram is only ever a curated snippet of reality 🫶🏼