21/11/2025
There is a kind of beauty in imperfection.
Conrad Hall
Making mistakes and being imperfect can be challenging in life, and it's even harder in therapy. It is here that lies the frailty of being human. I don't mean ethical mix-ups and invalidation. Owning up, being gracious when being corrected, acknowledging a misstep, or forgetting something. Someone I respect in the field mirrored my humanity, expressing what mattered with tenderness. They let their guard down and showed me that I could do it. I made space when a client asked me to tell them about you at the end of the session. I realised they have a right to know too, and I cannot hide behind the guise of professionalism. I cannot make something up for the sake of it. I need to find my way through the chaos. In this exploration, I move with the mess; I make it larger. I let it interact with my body. I notice having fun and being less rigid. We may have to reframe what relational spaces in therapy look like from an ecological paradigm.