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Learn and Teach Meditation. Awaken the mind. Our vision is a qualified meditation teacher in every town and suburb in the world

We would love to see everyone learn the art of mental stillness. Only then can the world be truly at peace.

08/04/2026

I've been meditating for over 30 years.

There are still mornings when I don't feel like sitting down.

The difference between a beginner and someone who's been doing this a long time isn't motivation. It's that the experienced meditator sits anyway. Not because they're more disciplined, but because they know from experience what's waiting on the other side of resistance.

You don't feel like meditating? That's fine. Sit down anyway. The feeling changes once you start.

That's the whole secret.

07/04/2026

I run weekend meditation retreats in the Adelaide Hills a few times a year.

Two days. Small group. A quiet venue surrounded by bushland. We go deeper into the practice than you can in a weekly session — extended meditations, one-on-one guidance, and the kind of stillness that only comes from stepping away from your normal routine.

You don't need to be experienced. You just need to be willing to sit still and try.

If you're local to Adelaide and you've been wanting to take your practice to the next level, a weekend retreat is the fastest way to do it.

Next retreat details coming soon. Follow this page or check skillfulmind.com.au for updates.

05/04/2026

People often ask me: 'How long should I meditate each day?'

Consistency matters far more than duration.

Ten minutes every day will take you further than an hour once a week. Five minutes done faithfully will outperform thirty minutes done sporadically.

The reason is simple. Meditation trains the mind through repetition — like building a muscle. A brief daily session keeps the neural pathways active. Long gaps let them fade.

If you're just starting, commit to something embarrassingly small. Five minutes. Three, even. Do it at the same time every day. Don't negotiate with yourself about whether you feel like it.

After a month of that, you won't want to stop. The practice starts pulling you toward it.

That's how it begins.

03/04/2026

Most people come to meditation looking for relaxation.

And relaxation does happen. But it's a side effect, not the goal.

The actual goal is training the mind — developing attention, awareness, and equanimity. Relaxation follows naturally when the mind becomes less reactive.

This matters because if relaxation is your only aim, you'll stop when you feel calm enough. But the real benefits — the clarity, the emotional resilience, the genuine contentment that doesn't depend on circumstances — only come with sustained practice that goes well beyond just feeling relaxed.

Relax by all means. But don't stop there.

02/04/2026

Last month a student who had been meditating with us on Sundays for about three months spoke to me.

'I haven't told anyone,' she said. 'But I've stopped snapping at my kids in the morning. I didn't even try to stop — it just... stopped.'

That's the thing about meditation. The changes often show up where you least expect them. Not during practice, but in the small moments that used to trigger you.

You don't notice it happening. Then one day you realise you're different — not because you tried to be, but because something shifted underneath.

If you've noticed changes like this — even small ones — I'd love to hear about them in the comments.

01/04/2026

There are people in your suburb right now who would benefit enormously from a weekly meditation group.

They won't find one at a Buddhist temple. They won't stick with an app. They need a real person, in their community, who knows what they're doing.

That person could be you.

The Skillful Mind Leaders Program teaches you everything you need to start and run a community meditation group — from how to teach beginners to how to handle the practical side like venues, attendance, and keeping people coming back.

Fully online. CMA accredited. Ongoing support from a community of leaders doing the same thing.

If this feels like something you're meant to do, it probably is.

skillfulmind.net/leader/

29/03/2026

There's a concept in meditation training called peripheral awareness — the ability to stay focused on your meditation object while simultaneously being aware of everything happening around you.

Most beginners think meditation means shutting everything out. The opposite is true. A well-trained mind is focused AND open at the same time.

Think about driving. A learner grips the wheel and stares straight ahead. An experienced driver is relaxed, focused on the road, but also aware of mirrors, weather, other cars — all without effort.

Meditation trains the same skill. You focus on the breath, but you remain softly aware of sounds, sensations, thoughts passing through. This dual awareness is what makes the mind both calm and alert.

It takes time. But it's trainable. And once you have it, it doesn't just help you meditate — it helps you listen better, think more clearly, and respond instead of react.

28/03/2026

Meditation this morning.

Online. Free. 10am ACDT.

All welcome.

skillfulmind.net/zoom

26/03/2026

Every year I take a small group to Bali for a meditation retreat.

It's not what you'd imagine. Not an escape from life. No Instagram wellness aesthetic. Just a small group, a beautiful setting, and a week of real practice — morning and evening meditation, teachings, personal coaching, honest conversations.

People come back different. Not because Bali is magical — but because stepping completely out of your routine gives the practice room to go deeper than 20 minutes a day ever can.

If you've ever thought about doing a retreat — what's held you back? Drop it in the comments.

25/03/2026

Ever wondered what it would actually take to wake up your mind?

Not in a vague, spiritual way — in a practical, 'here's what you need to do and why it works' way.

That's what the Wake Up Workshop is. 90 minutes. Free. Online.

I walk you through the essential practices and principles that make meditation actually work — not just as stress relief, but as genuine mental training.

If apps didn't stick, or you want to go deeper than you've managed on your own — this is your starting point.

Next session details coming soon. Follow this page or visit skillfulmind.com.au/learn-to-wake-up-in-90-minutes/

22/03/2026

One of the most useful things meditation teaches you is how to be with discomfort without reacting to it.

Not suppressing it. Not analysing it. Just noticing it's there — and staying steady.

Most of us spend our whole lives either pushing difficult feelings away or getting pulled under by them. Meditation gives you a third option: feel the thing fully, without it running the show.

This doesn't happen overnight. It builds with practice. But when it starts to click, it changes everything — not just on the cushion. In conversations. In decisions. In the way you move through a hard day.

That's what I mean when I say meditation is practical. It's not about escaping life. It's about being more present for it.

21/03/2026

Today is election day in South Australia — and I've been thinking about what meditation has to do with politics.

I'll be upfront: I lean left. And I think there's a spiritual reason for that.

In meditation, we talk about dualism — the mind's tendency to split everything into opposites. Us and them. Winners and losers. The right tends to see the world as a contest. The left tends to believe we can lift everyone up together.

Here's the part I know is controversial: in my experience, as people deepen their practice and begin to wake up, they tend to move in the direction of the left. Not because of ideology — but because they start to genuinely feel their interconnectedness with others.

The "every man for himself" worldview gets harder to hold when you directly experience that there's no firm boundary between self and other.

I've written more about this on the blog — including why populist leaders thrive on dualistic thinking, and what waking up might have to do with how we vote.

👉 https://skillfulmind.com.au/politics-and-dualism-a-spiritual-perspective/

I'd love to know what you think — especially if you disagree.

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