24/03/2026
Moving Forward
Over the last couple of days and weeks I have been contemplating what it would look like moving forward after declaring that I plan on doing things differently. It takes courage to step away from a path that you have been following even if it hasn't panned out the way that I thought it would.
I've acknowledged that I have looped back to this place a couple of times because to be honest there is something that keeps bringing me back. I can't quite name it but it's there. However this time it feels different, it feels less pressurised, it feels lighter.
Since making my declaration a couple of days ago I am sleeping better and exercising more with much less stress present.
So, what is it going to look like moving forward. First a lot more emphasis will be placed on attracting the deep thinking, deep diving women that I want to work with. Women that are looking for support from someone who sees their patterns and compassionately with the occasional hard truth help them create the changes they are looking for. They are looking for someone that helps them find their own way forward, someone who recognises that they are unique and have life experiences that means a one size fits all option won't work. They are looking for tailored, individual solutions that sometimes you can't put into words, but you know it when you experience it. They're looking for someone with a variety of tools in their tool kit which means they have access to strategies that might not be mainstream. They are looking for someone who is highly intuitive and leads from the heart, that puts people first.
This means that my writings and maybe the odd meditation will be shared first on my self-expression blog on my website and then if it feels aligned sharing on social media and most likely giving Instagram a miss as I haven't really liked it preference for short form content and video's. This isn't a push designed to drive traffic to my website but as place where I curate the content and am not dictated to by an algorithm is why I am doing this. I believe that algorithms are a form of manipulation that take you out of your authenticity, because if you are trying to fit into a strategy that doesn't align with you in a false belief that you will get attention that is manipulation at its core. Also, I am looking to attract those people that are specifically interested in what I have to offer and not just scrolling their feed. I'm here to attract a certain type of women and am not going to waste my time on meeting and fitting into a box that wasn't designed for me.
My intention for the space is for it to be a place where I come to share and connect with like-minded women who are looking for something deeper than what's on offer at the moment. I really don't believe that everyone is looking for superficial content and are easily distracted. I think they are easily distracted because we are bored to a degree, I know I am, even short content is boring to me at times. So, it's not the length of content causing the boredom. I also know that a lot of people are continuing to leave social media platforms for various reasons, and I would suggest some of it is because it is so far removed from its original intention. Your feeds are full of adds/sponsored posts because that is the only way to get them seen and the sad thing about that is often, they aren't being seen by the people you want to have see your posts. So, now you're wasting money trying to get attention from the wrong sort of people and then wonder why you bother putting all the effort in for little return. My thought process for this shift is to invest in my platform/website as I have control over the content.
I am considering opening my blog up to be a sharing space with mutual benefit of other people seeing your content in a place that isn't controlled by social media. If this is something that interests you, please reach out to discuss what this might look like.
Anyway, this was longer than I thought it would be, obviously it is still a work in progress and other pivots may occur as time goes by. I'm excited to see what shows up in this new iteration.
If you're interested, please check out my website which I will link in the comments.