I am a relationship and personal transformative coach. My mission is to help couples and individuals to unlock their full potential in their relationship and lives.
I have been with my wife for 18 years, and throughout that time we have had many challenges, including three separations, our marriage continues because we are both prepared to make changes within ourselves and how we work with each other. Ironically, I thought our relationship was the best it had ever been following our separation in 2013. But we had failed to see it had gone into autopilot. Yes, even as a therapist and coach, this can still happen. This year in May, my wife said she wanted to leave me. She wasnโt in love with me anymore because she had lost the spark in the relationship. However, she still loves me as a friend. It left me very confused at the time.
I had two choices. I could see this as a bad thing, become depressed and make the situation worse or; I could choose between seeing this as a good thing and look at the relationship differently. After the first week of trying to understand how this has happened, I put everything that I learnt being a transformative coach, into my relationship with my wife. By showing up differently and taking 100% responsibility in my part of the marriage only, the only part I have control in, it helped me understand my wife and our relationship on a whole new level. It only took four weeks for our relationship to reconnect and to become stronger. We both now are200% committed to our relationship (100% from me and 100% from my wife) all because we are showing up differently and we know the importance of putting the relationship/marriage first.
My work over the last ten years has been in learning to understand personal development, leadership, psychology, human behaviour, and how the mind works. I have spent five years as a therapist and have gone back to coaching using my unique approach.
We have learned that relationships need a lot of compromises, constant effort and hard work. Perhaps you are at a point where you feel your relationship is in autopilot and is no longer what it used to be in the beginning. You may be considering divorce, or you are not sure where you want things to go. Working with me is not therapy or counselling, and it is not about digging into problems of the past and bringing them to the present. Through our coaching conversations, you will gain a new understanding of how the mind works, transforming the real way you look at your relationship moving forward with the behaviour towards your partner, bringing a new sense of joy and fulfilment as a couple.
COUPLES TRANSFORMATIVE PROGRAM
MY COUPLES COACHING PROGRAM COULD BE WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR IF YOU WISH TO:
ยท Finally, eliminate blame and distance
ยท Learn how to listen and communicate to your partner deeply
ยท Let go of the past that holds you back
ยท Regain your lost intimacy
ยท Learn to work as a team in the face of challenge
ยท Enjoy each otherโs company
ยท You want to change the way you function as a couple.
If youโre looking to make changes to the way you function as a couple, the Inside-out Couples Transformative Program is tailor-made to fit uniquely into your current lifestyle and designed around your relationship needs. We will meet weekly, with each session allowing us time to explore both what is going on for you in real-time and building a solid foundation as a couple of wisdom, insight, and resilience that will have a long-lasting impact in your relationship. Our sessions will vary between working individually and as a couple.
Our sessions can be held in person in Sunshine Coast and Brisbane or online through video conference.
PERSONAL TRANSFORMATIVE PROGRAM
MY COACHING PROGRAM COULD BE WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR IF YOU WANT TO:
ยท Achieve your goal or create something that seems impossible in your life
ยท Finally live without stress, insecurity and anxiety
ยท Enhance work productivity and creativity by enjoying what you do
ยท Feel more energy, joy and peace of mind without the effort
ยท Improve work/life balance in all areas
ยท To learn how to face change and challenge with resilience and clarity
If you want to make changes throughout your life, the Personal Transformative Program is tailor-made to fit into your current lifestyle and designed around your personal and professional goals. We will meet weekly, with each session allowing us time to explore both what is going on for you in real-time and building a solid foundation of wisdom, insight and resilience that will serve you across the board.
Our coaching sessions can be held in person in Sunshine Coast and Brisbane or online through video conference.
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Book your free 45min relationship introductory coaching session with me today.
https://dhtransformativecoaching.as.me/free-45min-relationship-coaching-session
