06/11/2025
This part of your cycle is what I call “when the veil is thin”, your threshold for bu****it is non existent.
Your body often aches with the weight of all you carry, relationship red flags be flagging both in personal and professional areas of your life, your tolerance for labor both emotional and physical that is not yours becomes blinding in neon flashing lights.
Society had gaslight us from adolescence that this “PMS” is simply par for the course.
The moodiness, teariness, anger, rage is irrational, we are simply just overly sensitive b*tches.
During consultation I ask if patients experience any “PMS” symptoms, they often that giggle & refer to their poor partners during this stage of their cycles.
They describe teariness, anger, heart palpations, headaches/migraines, exhaustion, breast tenderness and sleep disturbance leading up to their period.
It’s at this point I explain its during this discomfort they should “lean into” what is “triggering” her, making her rage, exhausted, overstimulated, fatigued.
I ask her to assess where her boundaries are not being respected, or voiced, is she being supported at home, where is her labor both physical and emotional unbalanced, at work, at home, with partners and family of heritage.
When prompting her, Im not looking for her to disclose, Im simply asking her to take pause, to lean into where she feels most vulnerable, unheard, stretched and unsupported in her life.
I ask her to no longer dismiss these needs that become more apparent during the lead up to her monthly period as just “PMS”, but to embrace this time of when the “veil is thin” to mother herself, rest, reassess and use her voice, to put herself at the top of her todo list, honour herself and her needs.
Supporting your body through the luteal phase is crucial for your overall health and wellbeing. We aren’t designed to endure and suffer through this time in our cycle, look deeper and honestly ask yourself what do I need, and act accordingly.
x Catherine