07/01/2026
This is where a lot of people get stuck.
They see these experiences from people online, where they're having these big "trauma releases" at big group events & being held by strangers while they scream & cry & think that must be what I need.
But what they don't show is how people are afterwards & a few weeks later. Why? Because that doesnt make good social media.
Then people see them & starting trying to heal trauma, rewire beliefs, or âdo the inner workâ while their nervous system is still in survival mode. They haven't done the ground work.
And then they wonder why nothing sticks.
Hereâs the truth: You cannot heal what your body still feels unsafe holding.
A dysregulated nervous system will:
đ¤Śââď¸ override logic
đ¤Śââď¸ resist change
đ¤Śââď¸ pull you back into old patterns
đ¤Śââď¸ make even âgoodâ things feel overwhelming
Regulation isnât optional.
Itâs not a luxury.
Itâs the order of healing.
This is why at AMHH we start with nervous system regulation,
before deeper emotional or identity work.
Because when your body feels safe,
your healing finally has somewhere to land.
If this reframes things for you,
save it.
And if you know someone pushing themselves too hard in healing,
send it to them.