17/08/2025
A lady did a Rapid Core Healing healing session with me earlier this week; it was a beautiful and deep process, (as it typically is!), and she experienced a huge shift by the end of it. During our preliminary conversation she mentioned that her husband held a lot of trauma over the loss of his child at birth in his previous marriage. I mentioned that this or Family Constellations would be really helpful for him.
Lo and behold, he turned up at my clinic later in the week to do his own work on this. He was experiencing a deep fear of losing his current family (including his wife and son) which he felt caused him to be a bit more controlling than he’d like to be, and quickly go into panic if they were out of his radius.
When we spoke about this more, he shared that his brother had died at birth when he was 14, and that his first wife had terminated her pregnancy without his knowledge which caused him great heartbreak, and that his second wife lost their son at childbirth.. The marriages had not survived. And understandably he was devastated by both occurrences.
Under a light trance state, we regressed back to the first time in his life where he had developed this fear of losing his family. Incredibly, we ended up with him as a six month old, where he had almost died. His father was of course beside himself and what we uncovered was that from this my client had, out of love for his father, carried his father’s fear of losing his son for him. We did deep reparative work here, giving his father back this fear, whilst ensuring that the father knew that his son survived, and that his father received the support needed at this point from the older generations within his family system, so that the son no longer felt the need to carry this for him..
TBC in comments..
