21/10/2023
This is so true, our stories in Sympathetic state are totally different when we are in a Ventral vagal state. eg: in Sympathetic, the world is scary, dangerous, fast, I am afraid, anxious, on guard. In ventral, the world is interesting, inviting, I am curious, calm etc......once we can start working with and recognising our stories, we can change our states
First comes the symptom, then comes the story. The story of your thoughts can sound like, “What did I do to cause this? Did I do too much yesterday?” Or, “I’m still not doing something right. That’s why I still have this symptom.” Whatever your thoughts sound like, you can intervene. Intervening involves recognizing that not all of your thoughts are true. They’re just thoughts. And as long as you recognize that your thoughts won’t hurt you, the less power they have over you.