28/01/2026
Not because we wanted control.
But because we learned early that holding it all
was how everyone survived.
This part is organised.
Alert.
Responsible.
Often exhausted.
It steps in quickly —
anticipating needs, smoothing edges,
carrying what wasn’t meant to be carried alone.
In parts work, we don’t try to get rid of the Fixer.
We get curious about what it’s protecting.
And gently ask:
What would happen if it didn’t have to do this anymore?
Who might help hold things now?
What does this part need? From us, from others?
Healing isn’t asking the Fixer to disappear. It’s respecting it’s efforts,
It’s helping it finally rest. It’s choosing to do thing differently.
