Endre Hoffmann - The Doctor of Self-Worth

13/11/2025

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09/11/2025

How could he screw this up? What would you have done? Addiction was probably his coping mechanism, he never dealt with at the root of his issues… if he knew that rebuilding self-worth to feel good and enough won’t take that much time….

Getting efficient help was his problem…

HOW ARE YOU?

Do you have to get rid of a similar crap going through your head and heart daily? My dood is open for you.

He had just started to believe in love again when she appeared—Julia Roberts, radiant, brilliant, and far beyond the reach of someone who quietly called himself “broken.”
In 1995, the world knew Matthew Perry as Chandler Bing, the quick-witted, insecure charmer on Friends. But behind the laughter track, Perry was fighting a private war—with addiction, with loneliness, with the unshakable feeling that he was never enough. So when CBS told him Julia Roberts would only appear on Friends if her storyline was with Chandler, it felt like destiny knocking.
“She said she’d do it—if she could be with me,” he wrote years later, still sounding astonished. To him, it was unthinkable that someone like Julia Roberts—America’s sweetheart—would even notice him. But she did.
He sent her three dozen red roses, the kind only a man with trembling hands and a racing heart would send. His note read: “The only thing more exciting than the prospect of you doing the show is that I finally have an excuse to send you flowers.”
Her reply? A mountain of bagels and doughnuts—sweet, funny, perfectly her. What began as a flirtation soon became something purer, something real. For three months, they exchanged daily faxes, love letters crackling through the phone lines of the 1990s. “I would race home to read them,” Perry recalled. “It was like Christmas morning every day.”
When Julia finally appeared in “The One After the Super Bowl,” their on-screen chemistry wasn’t acting—it was a reflection of two hearts that had already met in secret.
But behind Matthew’s jokes was a mind consumed by fear. He adored her, yet he couldn’t silence the voice that told him it wouldn’t last. “I was certain she would break up with me,” he confessed in his memoir. “Why wouldn’t she? I was not enough; I could never be enough.”
And so, rather than face the pain of losing her, he did the unthinkable—he let her go. “I broke up with the most beautiful woman in the world,” he said, “because I was afraid she would break up with me.”
Years later, Julia Roberts would still speak of him with warmth and compassion, even as Matthew spiraled deeper into addiction. Their story ended quietly, without resentment—just a lingering sadness for what might have been.
And in one of life’s strange, poetic twists, Matthew Perry passed away on October 28th—Julia Roberts’ birthday.
Their brief love story reads like a Hollywood script written by fate and finished by heartbreak. It reminds us that no matter how bright the lights or how deep the love, we can’t fully receive it until we learn to love ourselves first.
As Matthew once wrote, “Addiction is a disease of loneliness.” Perhaps what hurt most wasn’t losing Julia Roberts—it was never believing he was worthy of being loved by her in the first place.

07/11/2025

This message came this morning: “Endre I’m just reaching out to say thank you for the work that you do.
I can’t believe it but I have to, every time I feel little waves in my emotions, I remember before I was born, I was peaceful and loved and then I become peaceful and loved in an instant and I feel this force of energy lifts me up.

And because of that, I become a mirror, I find everything so delightful, I can feel my boyfriend loves me more. I laugh at everything because in my heart it is so light!

I searched in my emails and I saw your email about a few poems, I read them thoroughly and feel the superficial life I live in, I’m not in pursue for what really matters. From now I will be.

I can’t wait for my EU trip to find myself, and hopefully to see you. And I need to take a moment to give you the credits you deserve.

I’m still working on myself, still working still working, putting in the work putting in the work.
IT WORKS ENDRE!
THANK YOU!!”

06/11/2025

Are you the one waiting for the road to be cleared?
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03/11/2025

Have you realized "The Impact of Self-Worth on Leadership" That's the topic of my last article: "As a leader, your inner landscape sets the tone for your entire organization. Self-worth isn’t just personal—it’s profoundly organizational. When your sense of worth is shaky, it seeps into your decisions, your energy, your communication—and ultimately the culture you build.

💡 Why Self-Worth Matters in Leadership

Decisions without desperation

When your self-worth isn’t tied to approval or outcomes, you become clearer, calmer, and more willing to make bold choices—even when you might be wrong. As Jerry Colonna advises: “Leaders must learn to detach self-worth from their decisions.”

Modelling psychological safety

Leaders with strong self-worth create environments where mistakes are seen as growth opportunities—not evidences of failure. That fosters trust, more openness, and innovation. Empowering leadership thrives when people feel safe and valued.

Culture through embodiment

It’s not enough to declare values—you must embody them. Leaders are the first line of defense for a company’s culture. If your team doesn’t see you living your values, the culture crumbles....

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