05/09/2025
I love this quote. However to get to this point of loving self unconditionally and being compassionate to self (being kind to self, like how youād talk to a loved one) for some of us is a work in progress. And thatās ok. šš»
Others may project onto you what they maybe feeling and perhaps you take on their energy which isnāt yours to take on?
I know myself being a past people pleaser and an empath, that I truly feel into another personās projection. In other words taking on their positive or negative vibe without them even speaking.
What a person thinks of me is their business, not mine to a degree. I canāt control people, places or things. But I can make peace with self on what I choose to take on of others and their perception of me. š«¶š»
Itās their āstuffā they have to work on themselves and perhaps they might not be ready to accept accountability for their actions. Possibly some people maybe stuck in a rut with their rigid ways of thinking, that they donāt know any better?
There are so many possibilities, the list is endless, in how someone may project their feelings onto another.
An important factor is that you are safe both mentally and physically.
Itās up to us, I believe, as individuals, to set healthy boundaries ( to speak up, to use your voice to be heard in how you wish to be treated) in regards to what you wish to take on of others, or not . šš»