27/01/2026
VICTIM MENTALITY or HERO'S JOURNEY?
The victim paradigm is fading. Collectively, we're realizing the world we entered was never safe or truly equitable—a reality animals navigate daily. The notion that life should be easy or fair has been subtly marketed to us, urging constant pain avoidance. While caution can protect, excessive vigilance turns into cowering rather than living.
We shield children from hurt out of love, hoping to preserve their wonder and remind ourselves the world remains beautiful.
When life batters us, feeling weak, tired, fearful, or emotionally overwhelmed is natural—and healthy. Suppressing pain, grief, anxiety, or anger (through avoidance, addiction, etc.) blocks growth. Feel those feelings. Own them. Then let them go.
We are souls on a journey. I hear daily stories of people who survive, adapt, yet still carry unprocessed emotions. I address physical ailments but believe many conditions stem from emotional/psychological layers needing attention, so I refer to kinesiologists, counsellors, chiropractors, and others for holistic support in our community.
There are many tools that can help support your journey - herbs, minerals - things that come from a life force to give you life force. Practitioners that can help you to see what you haven't been able to see. Practitioners that help get your nervous system 'unstuck' so you move your path forward.
There is no single fix or magic product to 'fix' you. You on a soul's path. Your life is your hero's journey—everyone struggles at least some of the time.
The hero's journey in city life is not conquering cliff faces, sheer drops, the traps, mazes and menacing tigers.
The tigers are paper tigers - mortgages, insurances, school fees, medical bills, and as of 2024, the cost of living.
The cliff faces are the big decisions we have to make - starting or ending a career, purchasing a home, deciding on a major health path.
The sheer drops are leaving toxic people, embracing the unknown, not knowing how we will cope with whats around the next bend.
Nothing is happening to you; everything is happening for you. The hand you were dealt is the one you're meant to play—this is your soul's journey. You stop being a victim the moment you take control.
Support it fully instead of papering over it. When a lesson is truly learned, the struggle fades, and the next chapter begins.