Dr Yajna Coci

01/11/2025

My Halloween outfit makes me think of the psychodynamic theme of defended affect and the mismatch between surface and depth.

What ways can we gently hold space or show someone care when we know they are not fine and perhaps not ready or don't know how to go there...

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22/09/2025

"You don’t let go of the axe... the axe lets go of you.”
Psychodynamic and EMDR therapy: you don’t force it. You feel it. You heal it.

04/09/2025

I feel grateful to learn from colleagues in different supervision groups that continue to nourish my growth and remind me of the value of shared reflection.

My wonderful team in West Perth — a group I’m proud to work alongside. Today, Patrick O'Connor led a compelling discussion about AI and therapy. The input from Daniel Lazaroo, Dawson Cooke and Katie Newton were invaluable.

At the Royal Australian and New Zealand College of Psychiatrists, where I supervise trainees, we explored themes of psychological manipulation through the 1944 film, "Gaslight" — such thoughtful discussions led by Dr Jan Resnick.

Each space brings its own kind of richness, and I’m thankful for the generosity and depth my colleagues bring to the table.

What kinds of learning spaces are feeding you lately?

22/04/2025

Wondering what type of therapy suits you? Think of it like an ocean adventure:

A Surfer stays on the surface, focusing on the present with techniques like CBT. A Snorkeler dives deeper, exploring the subconscious and past patterns with tools like EMDR. The Deep Sea Diver goes into the unconscious, uncovering hidden emotions and attachments, where psychodynamic therapy can guide deep healing. No matter where you’re at, the right therapy helps you explore, heal, and grow.

15/04/2025

So exciting to meet you in person in Melbourne, Caroline Burrows! I am grateful for the thoughtful treat at a lovely vegetarian spot nearby my hotel and for the years of generous online EMDR consultation - I've appreciated the growth from our work together. I truly enjoyed our conversation and reflecting on my EMDR journey since training with Dr Chris Lee and Graham Taylor back in around 2007/2008 then the supervision with both. It's incredible to see how far the field has come! I'm endlessly grateful to learn from each supervisor, supervisee, client/patient and colleague alike.

26/03/2025

True connections are where our most authentic selves shine. In a safe, supportive space, we're free to express, create, and heal. These genuine relationships help us grow, unleashing our creativity and the power of being truly seen and understood.

17/03/2025

It’s such a privilege to celebrate your 80th birthday with you, David, just as you’ve been there for my milestones. I’m deeply grateful for our thoughtful conversations over almost 2 decades, your unwavering belief in me as a mentor, and the kindness you've shown over the years. I feel happy to see you enjoy a rich life with beautiful people in it and to learn from you as a successful, Emeritus Associate Professor, Clinical & Developmental Psychologist.

14/02/2025

This Valentine’s Day, I loved deepening my passion for psychodynamic therapy receiving rich insights during a 1:1 with the brilliant Dr. Nancy McWilliams, nourishing both my heart and mind. ❤️

27/11/2024

In 1997, Michael White introduced the concept of ‘re-membering’ in narrative therapy, highlighting how our identities are shaped by a "club of life." This idea invites reflection on the people who influence our stories, both positively and negatively.

As you consider your own 'club of life,' ask yourself:

How do the people around you shape your sense of self?

What values and traits define those who stay in your life long-term?

How might valued members view those who are no longer part of your life?

This is an opportunity to reassess relationships that nourish you and reframe your narrative for growth, healing, and understanding.



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20/11/2024

According to the research, gratitude can be a game-changer for our overall health, happiness, and relationships! What are your favourite ways to bring more gratitude into your life? Let’s swap tips and inspire each other!

23/10/2024

Navigating personal conflict may not require a history book or a battlefield, but it certainly benefits from a thoughtful approach! Drawing inspiration from the work of Dr. John and Julie Gottman, let’s explore a more peaceful blueprint for resolution:
1) Listening and validation
2) Compromise and problem-solving
3) Dreams within conflict
4) The aftermath of regrettable incidents

16/10/2024