06/01/2026
If You Fall Apart When You Can’t Exercise…
If you’re a woman who’s relied on exercise to “keep it together”… and then injury, chronic illness, burnout, perimenopause, or parenting reduced your capacity to exercise — and your focus, mood, and functioning noticeably worsened — that can be a useful ADHD clue.
Many women with undiagnosed ADHD use exercise as an unintentional regulation strategy. Not because they’re “more disciplined”, but because exercise can temporarily support neurotransmitters involved in attention and self-regulation (dopamine and noradrenaline).
For some people, that means:
improved focus and task initiation
reduced internal restlessness
improved emotional regulation and stress tolerance
The catch is: if exercise is your main regulation tool, it can also become part of the “mask”. You may appear to be coping well — until illness, injury, or hormonal shifts take that support away.
This isn’t a diagnosis. But if this feels familiar, it may be worth exploring ADHD — especially because women are often missed when they’re high-masking.
I’m posting the longer personal version on YouTube on Wednesday.
If you want Part 2 on low-energy, chronic-illness-friendly movement that still supports an ADHD brain, comment PART 2 or ADHD.